All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? 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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 4984 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Get Past This Feeling of Never Being Her Choice When She Had Freedom to Choose? 6/12/2025 Q&A Do I Take Action Against the Affair Partner or Just Letting It Go? 6/12/2025 The Crucial Role of Disclosure in Healing (Survey) 6/11/2025 The Number One Question and How to Answer It 6/04/2025 Q&A How Do I Stop Hating the Affair Partner? 5/28/2025 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Healing or Blending Two Different Attachment Styles? 5/28/2025 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Race of the Affair Partner Being a Trigger? 5/28/2025 Q&A Is There Any Hope That My Husband Will Change? 5/28/2025 The Brain’s Hidden Wound of Betrayal Trauma 5/28/2025 Who I Should (and Shouldn't) Tell About the Affair 5/21/2025 Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Such Hatred Towards His Affair Partner? 5/14/2025 How Do I Know I Am Not “Plan B?” 5/14/2025 Grappling with Disappointment from an Affair 5/07/2025 Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Using Parental Control Apps to Create Safety and Rebuild Trust? 5/06/2025 Q&A How Can She Support the ED That Came from Her Betrayal, Instead of Waiting for It to Fix Itself? 5/06/2025 Q&A Do You Have Experience with BPD Affairs? 5/06/2025 Do’s & Don’ts of Emotional Flooding 4/30/2025 Q&A When Do I Throw in the Towel? 4/23/2025 Q&A As the Betrayed, Is It Wise to Seek Closure with the Affair Partner? 4/23/2025 Deciding to Stay: Practical Ways to Rebuild Safety 4/23/2025 Q&A How Do We Move past This Set-Back in Our Recovery? 4/16/2025 Q&A Why Do I Get Aroused Imagining the Sexual Acts My Wife Did with Her Affair Partner? 4/16/2025 The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 4/16/2025 Q&A How Long Will It Take for Him to Get Over His Feelings Towards Her and the Fantasy of the Affair? 4/09/2025 Q&A Do You Suggest He Focus On Healing Himself First, Then Our Marriage? 4/09/2025 Q&A How Do We Restore the Relationship with Our Adult Children? 4/09/2025 Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Gather Evidence in Order to Move On from This? 4/09/2025 Q&A Is There a Way to Reconnect or Get Him to Engage Before Throwing 35 Years Away? 4/09/2025 Q&A When My Mate Accuses Me of Being a Narcissist Are They Really Recognizing Traits Within Themselves? 4/09/2025 The Myth of Greener Grass in Marriage 4/09/2025 Q&A When Will the Abusive Language and Name-Calling from the Betrayed Spouse Stop? 4/02/2025 Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Really Shut the Door on the Affair Partner? 4/02/2025 Q&A What Do I Look for to Know the Affair Isn’t Still Happening? 4/02/2025 Q&A When Will My Efforts Be Enough for My Spouse? 4/02/2025 Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 4/02/2025 Q&A How Should I Respond When He Shares Lies with Me, Especially If I Perceive He Is Sugar-Coating the Truth? 4/01/2025 Q&A How Do I Find a Way to Show Compassion or Empathy When I Find Myself Empty of It in the Moment? 4/01/2025 Q&A Can You Shed Light on Pass/Fail Outcomes and Eye-Scan Polygraph Tests? 4/01/2025 Q&A Can I Forgive My Husband for Abandonment? 4/01/2025 Q&A How Can We Best Deal With This Hurtful Possibility and Begin to Heal from It? 4/01/2025 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Apologizing to the Affair Partner’s Spouse? 3/26/2025 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Journaling as a Betrayed Spouse? 3/26/2025 Q&A How Could He Possibly Call What He Had with the Affair Partner ‘Love'? 3/26/2025 Ending An Affair: Throw Away the Key 3/26/2025 Revenge: Responding to an Affair 3/19/2025 Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 3/12/2025 Q&A Can You Give Me Insight on What Therapy Modalities Would Be Best for Me? 3/11/2025 Q&A Do You Recommend We Continue Living Separately During Recovery? 3/11/2025 Q&A Who Falls in True Love with an Affair Partner? 3/11/2025 Wanting to Be Wanted 3/05/2025 Pages123456789…next ›last »
