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Video Regulating Our Stress Response During Recovery 3/13/2024
Text How to Survive Infidelity 3/06/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Feel Safe When She Is Triggered? 2/28/2024
Video Q&A Will an Emotional Affair Become Physical with Enough Opportunity? 2/28/2024
Video Q&A Can You Describe ‘The Cycle of Grace’ in Secular Terms? 2/28/2024
Video Q&A What Do I Do with an Unfaithful Spouse Who Will Not Provide Me with Full Disclosure? 2/28/2024
Video Q&A Is It Possible for Him to Rebuild Real Empathy and Actually Care about Me Again? 2/28/2024
Text Dealing with Reminders 2/28/2024
Video Manifestation of Shame Part 1: The Unfaithful 2/21/2024
Video Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair 2/14/2024
Text Betrayal Trauma: How We Get Stuck in Trauma Bonds 2/07/2024
Text Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 1/31/2024
Video Q&A Is My Husband’s Erectile Dysfunction Due to His Affair? 1/30/2024
Video Q&A What Stops an Emotional Affair from Becoming Physical? How Do I Work through This Chasm in Our View of What Happened? 1/30/2024
Video Q&A Why Should I Go through This Program If I Don’t Believe My Unfaithful Spouse Loves Me Anymore? 1/30/2024
Video Q&A How Could My Unfaithful Partner Just Forget about the Affair Partner and What They Did Together? 1/30/2024
Video Q&A What Does Making Restitution Look Like in a Marriage after an Affair? 1/30/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Get over the Fact He Wanted to Walk Out on Us? 1/30/2024
Video What Does Doing the Work of Infidelity Recovery Mean for the Unfaithful - Infidelity Recovery 1/24/2024
Text Grieving Betrayal 1/17/2024
Text What is Healing? 1/10/2024
Video Q&A Given That Addiction Is Part of His Personality with the Alcohol Abuse, Is He Also a Sex Addict? Is There Any Chance He Might Get Better with DBT Therapy? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A Is It Ok for My Husband to Meet With His Affair Partner? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A Are My Assumptions about the Affair Partner’s Intentions Reasonable? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Tell My Unfaithful Spouse I Need Access to His Devices to Feel Safe? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A Could My Husband Be a Sex Addict? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A Can You Give Me Input on How My Mate Justified Their Actions? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Get past Feeling So Much Time Was Stolen from Me? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A If a Person Is Taking Medications and Has Gone Thru 6 Rounds of Chemo before Taking a Polygraph, Could This Give a False Reading? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband’s Anger? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A Can You Clarify What It Looks Like for Someone to Go into the Pre-contemplative and Contemplative Stage after a Relapse? 1/09/2024
Video Common Mistakes Made When Recovering from Infidelity 12/27/2023
Text Surviving the Holidays: 6 Tips 12/20/2023
Text Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends? 12/12/2023
Text Who is the Other Woman? 12/06/2023
Text Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy 11/28/2023
Video Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Have a Right to Ask the Betrayed What Source They Are Using to Find Information about the Affair? 11/28/2023
Video Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Partner Has Never Cried? 11/28/2023
Video Q&A What Is the Best Way to Keep Boundaries in a Situation Where the Affair Happens in a Tight Knit Community? 11/28/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning? 11/28/2023
Video Q&A What Traits Should We Look For in an Accountability Partner? 11/28/2023
Video Q&A Are There Support Groups Specifically for Recovery from Both Infidelity and Alcoholism? 11/28/2023
Video Community for Healing from Infidelity – Affair Recovery 11/22/2023
Text Affair Recovery: The Number One Question and How to Answer It 11/15/2023
Text Forgiving Infidelity: The Gift of Forgiveness 11/07/2023
Text Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 11/01/2023
Text Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 10/24/2023
Video Q&A What Is My Role in My Husband’s Healing Journey If He Has Been a Serial Cheater for Our Whole Dating & Marriage Relationship? 10/23/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself with an Addict That Is Not Seeking Out Help for Himself? 10/23/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With My Sexual Addiction When Everything I’ve Tried Isn’t Working? 10/23/2023

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