Handling Discovery

We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe.

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Video icon Q&A What's The Point in Continuing to Dig to 'Find Out What Happened' When I've Already Given Full Disclosure?
Video icon Multiple Affairs, a Child, and a Marriage That Survived All of It with Cindy Beall
Video icon Q&A Is My Husband's Behavior Typical of a Sex Addict?
Video icon His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed
Video icon Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?
Video icon Triggers After Infidelity: What To Do When They Hit
Video icon Q&A Is There Hope or Am I Fooling Myself?
Video icon Q&A What If I'm Never Able to Remember Enough of the Details from Long Ago?
Video icon The Biggest Myths About Unfaithful Wives
Video icon Help With Incessant Triggers and Reminders
Video icon Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair
Video icon Therapy, Groups, and Intensives: What Actually Works After an Affair?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When They Claim They Don't Remember What They Did During Their Affair?
Video icon Trauma, Trickle-Truth & Trust: Top Barriers to Recovery
Video icon The Workplace Affair: Why the Office is the #1 Place for Infidelity
Video icon Q&A How Do I Not Feel Betrayed After Years of Dismissal?
Video icon Is My Spouse Being Honest? Truth, Lies & Polygraphs
Video icon Q&A Should I Disclose to My Wayward Spouse Who I Shared Details With After Discovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Find Closure in Our Situation?
Video icon 3 Commitments After Your Affair is Discovered
Video icon Q&A Do I Ask These Questions, Even if They May Cause Further Pain?
Video icon Q&A Should We Wait to Participate in EMS Online?
Video icon Dear Unfaithful Spouse: When All Hope Seems Lost
Video icon Q&A What Do We Do In A Situation This Earth Shattering?
Text icon Denial and Recovery After an Affair
Video icon Betrayed: What to Know Immediately After Discovery
Video icon Q&A How Will These Delays and Trickle Truth Affect Our Recovery Timeline?
Text icon How Do You Deal With Anger After Infidelity?
Video icon Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened
Video icon Are Silence, Avoidance and Frustration Killing Your Recovery?
Video icon Moving from Self-Hatred to Self-Compassion
Video icon Movies & Infidelity: Why Hollywood Seems Obsessed with Sex & Secrets
Video icon The Crucial Role of Disclosure in Healing (Survey)
Video icon The Number One Question and How to Answer It
Video icon The Brain’s Hidden Wound of Betrayal Trauma
Video icon Who I Should (and Shouldn't) Tell About the Affair
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Such Hatred Towards His Affair Partner?
Video icon How Do I Know I Am Not “Plan B?”
Video icon Q&A As the Betrayed, Is It Wise to Seek Closure with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Deciding to Stay: Practical Ways to Rebuild Safety
Video icon Q&A Can You Shed Light on Pass/Fail Outcomes and Eye-Scan Polygraph Tests?
Text icon Revenge: Responding to an Affair
Text icon Am I Who They Want?
Video icon Q&A Does It Matter Who Ended the Affair?
Video icon Why the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Talk About the Affair
Video icon Q&A How Do I Tell the Wayward Spouse I Need More Discussion to Heal and Process?
Text icon How To Survive an Affair: How Much Should I Share with My Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Detailed Should the Disclosure Be for a 7-Year Emotional Affair With a Coworker?
Video icon Q&A Do You Think I Should Reach Out to Affair Partner’s Wife and Disclose the Affair?
Video icon Parenting Through Infidelity: A Father/Daughter Perspective