Handling Discovery We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How to Survive Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Power of Small Groups Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 535 Resources Type Title Posted Regulating Our Stress Response During Recovery 3/13/2024 Q&A What Do I Do with an Unfaithful Spouse Who Will Not Provide Me with Full Disclosure? 2/28/2024 Manifestation of Shame Part 1: The Unfaithful 2/21/2024 Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair 2/14/2024 Q&A If a Person Is Taking Medications and Has Gone Thru 6 Rounds of Chemo before Taking a Polygraph, Could This Give a False Reading? 1/09/2024 Common Mistakes Made When Recovering from Infidelity 12/27/2023 Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends? 12/12/2023 Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Have a Right to Ask the Betrayed What Source They Are Using to Find Information about the Affair? 11/28/2023 Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning? 11/28/2023 The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 10/18/2023 Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known 10/11/2023 How Do You Deal With Anger After Infidelity? 9/06/2023 Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure? 8/15/2023 My Spouse Had an Affair: What Should I Do Now? 8/09/2023 Is Ambivalence Common When Healing from Infidelity? 7/19/2023 How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity? 7/19/2023 Stuck? Three Methods to Get Moving in Infidelity Recovery 7/12/2023 Denial and Recovery After an Affair 7/05/2023 Discovery: Why Do I Want to Know? 6/14/2023 Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair 6/07/2023 Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Does One Find a Reputable and Affordable Polygraph Test Provider? 5/02/2023 Discovery: Part 4 - Goals for the Betrayed 3/29/2023 Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 3/22/2023 Q&A How Do I Approach This Polygraph without Feeling like My Marriage Is on the Line? 3/17/2023 Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 3/15/2023 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 3/08/2023 Q&A Do You Think There Is an Appropriate Methodology of Trying to Recall Some of This Using Hypnosis? 2/17/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Weaponizing Information That I’m Sharing with Them? 1/11/2023 Q&A What Can I Do, as the Betrayed, to Try and Get Closure? 1/11/2023 Revenge: Responding to an Affair 1/02/2023 Q&A How Can We Get Anywhere If a Calm Conversation Can’t Happen about His Recovery or Betrayals? 12/06/2022 How to survive an affair – How much should I share with my spouse? 11/15/2022 Q&A Any Advice on How, When & Where It’s Best to Share Our Story? 11/03/2022 Am I Who They Want? 10/19/2022 Q&A What Do I Do If I Don’t Believe My Mate Has Been Completely Honest with Their Full Disclosure? 10/13/2022 Q&A Can I Truly Trust a Polygraph? 6/14/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 5/25/2022 Q&A Why Can’t I Give My Spouse Full Disclosure? 4/20/2022 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Discuss the Questions That Most Wayward Spouses Get from the Betrayed? 4/20/2022 Q&A How Do We Handle Disclosure When My Infidelity Was So Long Ago and I Can’t Remember All the Details? 4/06/2022 Q&A What If the Hurt Spouse Needs More Information than the Wayward Spouse Is Willing to Give? 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Love Addiction 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Emotional Affair 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Wanting the Marriage and the Affair 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Sexual Addiction 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Fallen in Love 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: One-Night Stand 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs 4/06/2022 Q&A How Do We Create a Shared View of Our Relationship When We Have No Valid Timelines to Reference? 3/10/2022 Pages123456789…next ›last »