Safety in Recovery
The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.
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1064 Resources
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Video Were They Thinking of Me? 12/04/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Feel Safe Knowing That the Worst Pain I Have Ever Felt Could Possibly Happen Again? 12/03/2024
Video The Fantasyland of an Affair 11/27/2024
Video Mistakes Families Make After an Affair 11/13/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Respond If I Don’t Believe My Spouse? 11/12/2024
Video Was the Sex So Much Better in Their Affair? 11/06/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Support My Partner and Accept That I Can’t Control Their Recovery Journey? 10/30/2024
Video Are They Thinking About the Other Person? 10/09/2024
Video Is My Spouse a Narcissist? 10/02/2024
Video Q&A Am I a Fool for Being Vulnerable With My Mate? 10/01/2024
Video How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate 9/25/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Get the Lying and the Porn Use by My Husband to Stop? 9/18/2024
Video The Process of Healing from Infidelity 8/07/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Understand That Abuse Towards Men Is Equal to Abuse Towards Women? 7/31/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship? 7/31/2024
Video Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much Control or Is the Wayward Spouse Being Unreasonable With a Lack of Boundaries? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A Do I Need to Allow the Wayward Spouse to Have More Time in the Recovery Process? 7/10/2024
Video Romanticism: Don't Believe the Lie 7/03/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done? 6/13/2024
Video Help With Incessant Triggers and Reminders 5/29/2024
Video Betrayal Trauma: Tips for Talking with Your Spouse 5/22/2024
Video Signs There Could Be Abusive Behaviors in Your Relationship 5/08/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Know When My Husband is Safe Again? 5/07/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Do Everything Right at Every Moment for My Wife? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A Should My Husband Keep His Mother in His Life Given That She Actively Facilitated and Supported His Actions? 4/25/2024
Video The Affair Causing Habit 4/17/2024
Video Psychological Abuse Within Infidelity 3/20/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Tell My Unfaithful Spouse I Need Access to His Devices to Feel Safe? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband’s Anger? 1/09/2024
Video Q&A What Is the Best Way to Keep Boundaries in a Situation Where the Affair Happens in a Tight Knit Community? 11/28/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning? 11/28/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself with an Addict That Is Not Seeking Out Help for Himself? 10/23/2023
Video Q&A Are the Requests I’m Making to Feel Safe Unreasonable? 10/23/2023
Video Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Feel Unsafe When My Wife Is around the Affair Partner without Me? 10/23/2023
Text Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known 10/11/2023
Video Q&A Is Minimal Contact the Right Thing to Do at This Moment? 9/29/2023
Video Q&A Do I Have the Right to Know What My Spouse Is Doing to Monitor Me? 9/12/2023
Video Q&A What Is the Best Way to Set Boundaries in the Workplace? 8/15/2023
Video Q&A Are the Boundaries My Mate Has Placed on Our Conversations a Red Flag in Recovery? 8/15/2023
Text Discovery: Why Do I Want to Know? 6/14/2023
Text Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair 6/07/2023
Text Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 5/31/2023
Video Q&A Why Do I Still Respond Physically like I Am Lying When I’m Telling the Truth? 5/19/2023
Video Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted? 5/19/2023
Video Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal? 5/19/2023
Video Q&A Is It Necessary for Him to Be Proactive or Should I Be Happy He’s Doing What I Ask of Him? 4/12/2023
Text Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 3/22/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Spouse’s Siblings? 3/17/2023
Text Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 3/15/2023
Video Q&A What Action Do You Recommend If My Mates Behavior Doesn’t Change? 3/02/2023

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