Q&A Recovery Library

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video icon Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Make Sense of My Wife's Desire for Erotica?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do When I'm Triggered By My Own Home?
Video icon Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?
Video icon Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?
Video icon Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healthy Attachment, Rather Than Resentment & Apathy?
Video icon Q&A Do You Think An Ultimatum for the Unfaithful is Necessary?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Balance My Need to Verbally Process and Their Need to Take Breaks & Practice Normal?
Video icon Q&A Should My Unfaithful Husband Get Individual Therapy in Leu of EMS Online?
Video icon Q&A Is My Spouse Safe to Stay With?
Video icon Q&A Why Stay With Someone I'm No Longer Proud To Be With? Will That Feeling Ever Return?
Video icon Q&A What Behaviors Should I Realistically Expect From A Remorseful Spouse at This Stage?
Video icon Q&A Is The EMS Online Course Safe for Me?
Video icon Q&A Is There Hope or Am I Fooling Myself?
Video icon Q&A What If I'm Never Able to Remember Enough of the Details from Long Ago?
Video icon Q&A Have You Worked With Couples Where the Betrayal Was Essentially An Imagined Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is He a Compulsive Liar I Can Never Trust?
Video icon Q&A Is It Common For Sex Addicts To Say They Cannot Be Intimate With Their Spouses?
Video icon Q&A Is It Helpful to Make Amends with The Affair Partner's Family?
Video icon Q&A Why Did They Allow the Abuse to Continue?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Continue to Own My Actions Without Accepting Unhealthy Actions From the Betrayed?
Video icon Q&A How Can One Tell Whether Their Spouse Loves Them or Just Wants Someone They Trust They Can Come To?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Find Closure When The Affair Partner Is A Close Friend?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When They Claim They Don't Remember What They Did During Their Affair?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When I Feel Affair Recovery Content Is All for the Betrayed?
Video icon Q&A When is EMDR Necessary?
Video icon Q&A Are These Signs That My Church is Siding with The Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I See the Wayward as a Good Person Who Made a Serious Mistake?
Video icon Q&A Has Anyone Rebuilt a Healthy, Safe, Marriage After Something This Complex?
Video icon Q&A Where Can I Find Community During Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Will She Ever Know Why She Really Had the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Does My Husband Really Have to 'Get It' to Be Safe For My Own Healing?
Video icon Q&A What Treatment Do You Recommend for Prolonged Intrusive Thoughts?
Video icon Q&A What Affair Type Category Does an Entire Second Identity Fall Under?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Set Boundaries for Myself While Staying Compassionate for My Spouses Issues?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Not Feel Betrayed After Years of Dismissal?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop the Cycle of Self-Sabotage and Regain My Identity?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Feel Ambivalent About Doing Activities with My Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help the Betrayed Overcome Comparison With the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Will Finding Alternative Ways to Meet Needs for Connection Reduce My Perceived 'Need' for Sex?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Even Think About Trust Now?
Video icon Q&A Why Isn't More Time Spent Discovering Why They Had an Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Repair The Damage I Caused from Trickle-Truth?
Video icon Q&A What Does Genuine Recovery Actually Look Like?