Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Recovery Timeline Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected The 2 Stages of Pain Why Did My Spouse Cheat? The Problem with Forgiveness Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? 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How to Survive Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 3560 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Continue Supporting Her While Taking Care of My Heart and Mental Health? 4/20/2022 Q&A Why Can’t I Give My Spouse Full Disclosure? 4/20/2022 Q&A Is It OK for the Wayward Spouse to Keep in Touch with Affair Partners from the past That Happened Years before Us? 4/20/2022 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Discuss the Questions That Most Wayward Spouses Get from the Betrayed? 4/20/2022 Q&A How Do I Let Myself Be Happy Again? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Do We Handle Defensiveness? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Do I Move Forward Knowing That He Already Has The Mindset That This Could Happen Again? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Can I Convince Her to Engage More in the Group Therapy? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Could He Go from One Affair to Another? 4/08/2022 Q&A What Can I Do to Support Him but Also Be Heard? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Do I Get Over This Betrayal? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Can I Ever Get Over His Believing He Loved The Affair Partner? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Can I Communicate So That He Does Not Feel Condemned? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Do We Handle Disclosure When My Infidelity Was So Long Ago and I Can’t Remember All the Details? 4/06/2022 Q&A As a Betrayed Husband Is It Unrealistic to Want My Wife to Pursue Me Physically? 4/06/2022 Q&A What If the Hurt Spouse Needs More Information than the Wayward Spouse Is Willing to Give? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Do I Get past the Uncontrollable Fear of This Happening Again or That It Is Still Happening? 4/06/2022 Q&A Can You Please Give Me a Detailed Outline of What a Structured Separation Is and How to Implement It? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Do You Heal the Relationship with the Betrayed’s Extended Family? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Do We Continue in This Process When Only One of Us Is Committed? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Do We Move Forward after Several Relapses? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Much Harder Will Our Recovery Be in This Situation? 3/25/2022 Q&A How Can I Put In the Effort Needed on My End for Intimacy without Getting the Same Failed Result? 3/25/2022 Q&A How Can I Trust Him Again? 3/10/2022 Q&A If My Spouse Felt So Much Guilt and Shame the First Time, Why Did They Do It Again? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Should I Handle My Spouse Threatening to Harm Me? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Was He Able to Do a 180 Turn on Discovery? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Should I as a Wayward Spouse Approach My Spouse’s Continual Desire for Reassurance? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Do We Create a Shared View of Our Relationship When We Have No Valid Timelines to Reference? 3/10/2022 Q&A Why Was It Easy for Him to Be Nice to Everyone but Me, His Wife? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Do I Emotionally Connect with Someone Who Treats Me This Way? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Long Does It Take for Desire for My Mate to Return after Severing Ties with My Affair Partners? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Long Should I Accept and Validate His Exaggerated Reactions as a Result of My Previously Reckless Behaviors? 2/17/2022 Q&A Do You Agree It’s Necessary to Re-Establish No Contact? 2/17/2022 Q&A Why Don’t I Respect My Husband? 2/17/2022 Q&A How Should I Go About Trying to Get to Ground Zero? 2/17/2022 Q&A How Do I Get past the Affair Partner Continually Sending Me Photos and Descriptive Dialog? 2/17/2022 Q&A What Do I Do When My Partner Is in Denial about His Infidelity? 2/17/2022 Q&A Should a Wayward Spouse Be Allowed to Have Friends of the Opposite Gender? 2/17/2022 Q&A How do I Heal? 2/17/2022 Q&A Is He Just Not Interested in Me or Did He Magically Figure Out How to Treat a Woman? 2/17/2022 Q&A When an Intrusive Thought Occurs, How Do I Know the Difference between Suppressing and Ignoring That Thought versus Not Giving It Any Airtime, Capturing It, and Redirecting My Thinking to Something Else? 2/02/2022 Q&A Am I Being Closed Minded? 2/02/2022 Q&A How Should I Deal With Characteristics That I Do Not Possess, Yet Seem to Have Been Sought after by My Spouse in the Affair Partners? 2/02/2022 Q&A What Do I Do to Protect My, and My Children’s, Heart? 2/02/2022 Q&A How Can I Get To a More Balanced Psyche? 2/02/2022 Q&A Is It Wrong to Feel a Sense of a Sexual Revolution, after His Affair? 2/02/2022 Q&A What Do We Do When We Both Cheated, If My Betrayal Was ‘Worse’ than His? 1/18/2022 Q&A Am I Choosing Closeness over Intimacy When I Don’t Let My Mate Know About Intrusive Thoughts When We Are Lovemaking? 1/18/2022 Q&A Will the Betrayed’s Irritability Ever Go Away? 1/18/2022 Pages123456789…next ›last »
