Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Power of Small Groups Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 3983 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Move Forward When The Wayward Is Not Yet Able to Show Up in the Way The Healing Process Requires? 12/09/2025 Q&A What Online Therapy Recommendations Do You Have for People Outside of the United States? 12/09/2025 Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Rejected When I Sense That Some of My Husband’s Affection is Something He’s Offering Only to Support Me, Rather Than Something He Genuinely Feels? 12/09/2025 Q&A How Do I Continue if This is His Mindset? Part 2. 12/09/2025 Q&A How Do I Resolve the Conflict Between My Betrayed Husband and My Parents? 12/09/2025 Q&A How Do I Continue if This is His Mindset? 11/12/2025 Q&A Am I Crazy to Think This Could Ever Work Again or Is This a Narcissistic Cycle? 11/05/2025 Q&A Why Does It Seem That the Unfaithful Are More ‘Broken’ than the Betrayed After Everything That They Have Done to Us? 11/05/2025 Q&A Am I Crazy for Trying to Trust My Spouse? 11/05/2025 Q&A How Do I Get These Images Out of My Head? 10/22/2025 Q&A How Do We Handle a Vindictive Affair Partner? 10/22/2025 Q&A How Can the Wayward Stay Safe around the Betrayed’s Pain? 10/22/2025 Q&A Can You Provide Some Words of Encouragement? 10/22/2025 Q&A How Do We Handle Intense Intrusive Thoughts When Working High-Demand Jobs? 10/22/2025 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Grief and Sadness? 10/02/2025 Q&A How Can I Move Towards Vulnerability with Someone Capable of This? 10/02/2025 Q&A What Can I Do to Help Myself, and Us, At the One Year Mark? 10/02/2025 Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Partner to Feel Rage? 10/02/2025 Q&A What Exactly Do I Grieve and Do I Have to Grieve Before I Can Forgive? 10/02/2025 Q&A Why Would Someone Put Such a Cherished Relationship at Risk with an Affair? 10/02/2025 Q&A Have Men Been Able to Forgive and Have a Healthy Relationship After Extreme Infidelity? 10/02/2025 Q&A How Could He So Easily Forget the Pain He Caused? 10/02/2025 Q&A What Advice Would You Give to a Couple Who Feels Safe Now and for the Future, but Is Struggling with ‘Getting Right’ with past Infidelities and Traumas? 10/02/2025 Q&A Is There Anything the Wayward Spouse Can Say or Do That Has Been Effective in Helping the Betrayed Spouse Feel Better? 10/02/2025 Q&A How Do I Move Forward from Here? 9/10/2025 Q&A Why Should I Continue in This Relationship? 9/10/2025 Q&A How Will I Ever Feel Safe with Someone Who Has No Control over Themselves? 8/28/2025 Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Need Time to Mourn the Loss of the Affair Partner? 8/28/2025 Q&A How Do I Heal from What Happened? 8/28/2025 Q&A Could You Provide Suggestion on How to Predict & Repair Intrusive Thoughts When We Are Engaging in Sex? 8/28/2025 Q&A What Makes Someone Vulnerable to a Previous Romantic Partner? 8/21/2025 Q&A How Do We Address and Heal from My Husband’s past Betrayal in Light of My Recent Infidelity? 8/06/2025 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Betrayed Spouse That I Finally ‘Get It’? 8/06/2025 Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Spouse Love Me and Have an Affair Partner? 8/06/2025 Q&A Am I Asking Too Much in Regards to Relapse Prevention from My Husband? 8/06/2025 Q&A Would You Ever Consider Hosting a ‘Trauma Therapy Specific’ Weekend Intensive? 8/06/2025 Q&A How Is Proper Closure with the Affair Partner Done in This Situation? 7/23/2025 Q&A How Do Others Cope with No Answers or Resolutions? 7/23/2025 Q&A After a Polygraph Is Done to Confirm the Couple Is at Ground Zero, What Should Each Partner Expect from the Other Going Forward? 7/23/2025 Q&A How Do You Recommend We Handle Interactions with the Affair Partner? 7/23/2025 Q&A How Does He Not Have Deep Residual Feelings for the Affair Partner? 7/23/2025 Q&A How Do We Dismantle the Wall Hindering My Wayward Spouse from Expressing Sorrow, Remorse, and Empathy? 7/23/2025 Q&A I Want My Mate to Apologize. Is It Okay to Tell Him the Things He Has Done That Have Hurt Me? 7/21/2025 Q&A Are My Requests for Relapse Prevention Measures Unreasonable? 7/21/2025 Q&A How Do I Protect My Own Boundaries While Navigating This Complex Relationship? 7/09/2025 Q&A Can You Please Give Some Direction on the Various Courses and the Best Way to Go Through Them? 7/02/2025 Q&A What Would Put Me Back Into Integrity as a Betrayed Spouse? 7/02/2025 Q&A Why Is My Husband Blaming Me for His Affair? 7/02/2025 Q&A How Do I Talk About My Stupidity in a Redemptive Way, While I’m Still Struggling Through My Heart Change? 7/02/2025 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting My Husband to Completely Separate from Anyone Complicit in His Affair? 6/18/2025 Pages123456789…next ›last »
