My wife had a sexting affair with a married man who lives out of country. She met him 30 years ago when we were living together. Before we were engaged she was dating him on the side. They connected on Facebook & he called our office 30 years later & it began. I first caught her in February 2024 on Valentines Day. She deleted her Whatsapp account. We started counselling, she said she wants to be with me. In late April I found Whatsapp on her phone under "hidden" apps. She was secretly reaching out to him again. She again deleted Whatsapp from her phone for the second time. To keep me safe she has deleted her phone number and phone service with the mobile carrier. So she can't call on her phone and does not have Whatsapp. In early May I did see on her computer she was trying to reach out, by googling the AP's sister’s name. She apparently wanted to ask the AP’s sister to relay a medical question to the AP regarding an injury. (AP is a doctor) A lame reason to try & make contact with the AP. The AP is now guessing that she probably got caught again and that is why the interaction on WhatsApp has stopped. So who knows what the future holds regarding contact between them. Technology (phones/computers) is a problem. How is proper closure with the affair partner done in this situation?