Research on Affair Recovery's Programs
Longitudinal Effectiveness
In the largest study of its kind, we analyzed data from 20,800 participants over the past 14 years. This research reveals a powerful truth: even though infidelity is life shattering, our participants experience deep and lasting healing.
Key Findings
Our participants experienced significant relief from:
- Betrayal trauma
- Anxiety
- Depression
Their healing was substantial and sustained long-term.
The effectiveness does not differ based on these factors:
- Number of betrayals
- Gender
- Military status
- Involvement in a faith community
Findings for Each Program
Below are graphs, for each course, validating the progress participants experienced over time. Infidelity creates a mental health crisis for all involved. We measured healing through symptoms of anxiety, depression and Complex PTSD.
For Couples -
EMS Online Course
Reduced Anxiety
Magnitude of Improvement
Reduced Depression
Magnitude of Improvement
Reduced PTSD
Magnitude of Improvement
For Couples -
EMS Weekend Retreat
Reduced Anxiety
Magnitude of Improvement
Reduced Depression
Magnitude of Improvement
Reduced PTSD
Magnitude of Improvement
For Betrayed Spouses -
Harboring Hope Online Course
Reduced Anxiety
Magnitude of Improvement
Reduced Depression
Magnitude of Improvement
Reduced PTSD
Magnitude of Improvement
For Unfaithful Spouses -
Hope for Healing Online Course
Reduced Anxiety
Magnitude of Improvement
Reduced Depression
Magnitude of Improvement
Reduced PTSD
Magnitude of Improvement
“I've seen their data for years and I know it works. I refer people to Affair Recovery all the time. You don't have to waste time searching the internet. You should take their program."
- Nancy Scammacca Lewis, PhD. Quantitative MethodsUniversity of Texas Research Consultant
20,800
participants would fill
a major stadium.
You're not beyond hope
Our programs benefit people of all different lengths of marriage, numbers of betrayals, involvement in a faith community, and more. We are here to help people from a wide range of backgrounds & circumstances find a path forward.
Length of Marriage
18.2% 6-15 years
34.4% 16-25 years
27.6% 26+ years
19.8%
Number of Affairs (average)
Involvement in a Faith Community
Though rooted in the Christian faith, our courses offer help and healing to everyone, regardless of their current connection to a faith community.
*The data for these insights was collected from 8,226 EMS Online course participants.
How We Help
Free Tools
- First Steps Bootcamp: Everyone should take this to learn how to survive infidelity.
- Affair Analyzer: Get customized insights about your unique situation.
- Expert Articles and Videos: Free preview of the Recovery Library Membership.
- Schedule a Call: Talk to survivor who can help you find your next step.
For Couples in Crisis
- EMS Weekend: If you want the best, choose this 3-day weekend intensive to accelerate your recovery process. (Can't come in person? Attend the weekend virtually.)
- EMS Online: This 13-week course is the next best thing. It's an incredible experience.
For Betrayed Spouses
- Harboring Hope: Get support and direction with people who truly understand.
For Unfaithful Spouses
- Hope for Healing: Navigate the chaos in your life and learn what to do now.
Every Major Question Answered by Experts
- Recovery Library Membership: The largest infidelity database in the world with expert articles and over 3,000 answered questions in one trusted resource.

