I do believe my husband is a narcissist. Is there any hope? We have been married for 30 years and he has been unfaithful for at least 22 of them. He has had multiple affairs; some physical, some emotional - ranging from short-term to long-term. I have just discovered most of this information in the last 5 months. He tells lies about me to his affair partners - tells them he is in a bad marriage and I mistreat him. When we are together he pretends we are so happy and there are no issues. He tells lies about me to his friends and family to make me look bad. He refuses to address any conflicts that we have and refused couples therapy in the past and yet he discusses all our issues with the affair partners. He never validates my feelings. He is emotionally abusive. I have decided to leave the marriage. We have 3 kids and for the first time he says he wants to fix the marriage. He has signed us up for EMS Weekend. Is there any hope for him changing?