Spiritual Insights With trauma like infidelity, it’s often easier to explain through a spiritual lens than in terms of the world. If you are curious about God or just curious how God and infidelity go together, the articles in this section may be especially helpful. Must Reads more less Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Recovery Timeline We Started Well, but... Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How do you respond to blackmail? Part II How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The 2 Stages of Pain The Problem with Forgiveness The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 44 Resources Type Title Posted What Is A Forgiveness Letter? 3/16/2022 Q&A How Can I Get To a More Balanced Psyche? 2/02/2022 Announcing NEW Infidelity Video Blog: Songs for the Soul 1/26/2022 Q&A Can You Recommend a Daily Prayer for Me? 7/08/2021 Q&A Any Resources on Becoming More Faith Based? 7/08/2021 Q&A How Can I Trust God and Have Faith in Him? 3/22/2021 Q&A How Do I Salvage My Spiritual Relationship? 1/20/2021 Q&A What Should My Response Be When He Is Ambivalent or Hostile toward God? 12/17/2020 Q&A Biblically, Can You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? 10/05/2020 Q&A Has Affair Recovery Considered a Bible Study for Those Struggling with Their Identity and Relationship with Christ? 5/28/2020 Revenge: Responding to an Affair 4/15/2020 Q&A Is It Best to Just Keep Information about the Infidelity between the Two of Us? 9/26/2019 Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 9/18/2019 Q&A Is It Possible for My Wayward Spouse to Accept Unconditional Love? 8/23/2019 Q&A Did God Really Lead My Spouse to Have an Affair? 6/19/2019 Q&A Is There Hope for a Feeling of Oneness Again? 5/15/2019 Q&A Is My Unfaithful Husband Now Addicted to God? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Can I Cleanse My Body and Heart? 2/22/2019 Q&A Why Did This Happen When I Did Everything Right? 1/30/2019 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 1/30/2019 Q&A Do You Have Resources to Help with Connection? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Surrender Control? 12/20/2017 Q&A Is My Mate Drawn towards Something Bad and Repulsed by Something Good? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Can the Church Support Couples after Infidelity? 7/05/2017 Q&A What Do You Mean By, "People with a Strong Moral Compass Are More Likely to Have an Affair"? 5/17/2017 Q&A Is My Struggle with God Normal and How Do I Move past It? 3/08/2017 Q&A How Will I Know When I've Completely Forgiven Him? 3/08/2017 Q&A Can my Christian Witness be Valid Without Conveying Forgiveness? 12/20/2016 Q&A What Does Prayerfully Consider Really Mean? 10/24/2016 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 9/11/2016 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 9/11/2016 Q&A What Does This Verse from Proverbs Mean for Me? 8/24/2016 Q&A Can You Support Your Statement 'Faith is an Organ of the Soul'? 7/12/2016 Q&A Can You Give Me Guidance With My Assignment? 6/14/2016 Q&A What's God's Plan for Intimacy With Him and Marriage? 5/17/2016 Q&A Where was God in That Moment? 3/08/2016 Q&A Is There Another Solution Besides God for My Husband? 1/21/2016 Q&A I Want to Learn More About God, Where Do I Start? 11/04/2015 Q&A How Long can a Christian Continue to Sin? 6/02/2015 Q&A How do we Handle a Persistent Affair Partner? 6/02/2015 Q&A How can I Gain Perspective of an Addict's Mind? 4/15/2015 Q&A How Can a Just God Allow This? How can I Get rid of this Pain? 3/10/2015 Q&A How can I Heal the Marriage With an Ambivalent Spouse? 2/20/2015 Q&A How do I Deal With my Anger and Emotions? 12/16/2014