Strengthening Marriage Nurture your marriage with positive steps towards maintaining a healthy recovery. Use these articles to find security on your pathway to wholeness. Must Reads more less Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Recovery Timeline The Problem with Forgiveness We Started Well, but... Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The 2 Stages of Pain The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How to Survive Infidelity How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 342 Resources Type Title Posted Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel? 1/11/2023 Pleasing Versus Loving 11/29/2022 Handling Disappointment After Infidelity 11/08/2022 Am I Who They Want? 10/19/2022 The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 10/05/2022 Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation 9/07/2022 What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 7/13/2022 Q&A How Do We Give This a Shot If We Don’t Reengage on Some Level? 6/14/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 5/25/2022 Q&A Can You Help Us Understand Our Love Language Differences? 5/24/2022 Q&A How Do You Make Your Partner Feel Understood, Trusted, like They Matter, and That It’s Ok to Make Mistakes, Without Enabling Bad Behavior? 5/24/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Failing to Recommit 5/11/2022 Romanticism: Don't Believe the Lie 4/13/2022 Is There Hope After Infidelity? 3/02/2022 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 1/12/2022 Embracing Intimacy After Infidelity Part 2: The Art of Cherishing 9/15/2021 Embracing Intimacy After Infidelity Part 1: How to Reengage 9/08/2021 Mastering Marriage Part 2: Practicing the Process of Marriage and Recovery 8/25/2021 Mastering Marriage Part 1: Interpreting Plateaus in Marriage and Recovery 8/18/2021 My Spouse Had an Affair: What Should I Do Now? 8/04/2021 Q&A How Can We Want a Better Marriage in the Future When I Didn't Think It Was Bad in the First Place? 7/22/2021 Denial and Recovery After an Affair 7/14/2021 Mental Health and Parenting: How to Support Yourself and Your Kids 6/02/2021 How Couples Can Promote Good Mental Health During and After the COVID-19 Pandemic 5/26/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with His Inability to Talk about Our Marriage? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do We Safely and Respectfully Navigate Reconciliation, and Re-Integration to the Home, While Separated? 3/22/2021 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Help Him Work through His Struggles - Which in Turn Will Help Our Marriage? 3/18/2021 Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 3/17/2021 When to Save a Marriage and Surviving Infidelity 2/17/2021 Q&A Can You Help Me Better Understand the Three Stages of Love? 1/28/2021 The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy 12/02/2020 Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 11/04/2020 Q&A What Does Moving Forward a Year Later Look Like? 10/22/2020 Relapse: Why Can't You Stop? 10/07/2020 Q&A How Can We Deal with Resentments and Move Forward? 10/05/2020 Q&A How Do I Reengage and Begin Moving Forward Again? 8/18/2020 Q&A How Can My Spouse and I Resume Having and Acting on the Desire for Sexual Intimacy in Our Marriage? 8/06/2020 Q&A Why Can't My Husband Show Any Affection If He Says He Loves Me? 8/06/2020 Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy 8/05/2020 Q&A What Continued Work Do You Recommend for the Years to Come? 7/16/2020 Q&A As the Wayward Spouse, How Can I Rebuild Trust with My Husband? 7/09/2020 Q&A What Happens If a Husband and Wife Differ on What Constitutes Out of Line Behavior? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Do I Fall in Love with My Husband Again? 6/19/2020 Q&A Can You Define What Respect Is from the Male Point of View and Why Males Want Respect from Our Spouses? 6/10/2020 Q&A What Does Transparency in Marriage Look Like? 6/09/2020 Q&A How Do We Write a New Story Together? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is It Too Early to Start to Learn about Ourselves, the Recovery Process, and Grow? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do We Change a Destructive Pattern in Our Marriage? 5/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand My Concerns? 4/28/2020 Pages1234567next ›last »