255 Resources
Type Title Posted
Denial and Recovery After an Affair 7/14/2021
What Is the Cost of Forgiving Infidelity? 4/28/2021
Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy 8/05/2020
Q&A How Can We Move Forward When We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 7/30/2020
Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends? 7/29/2020
Q&A How Can I Feel Safe When There Is No Empathy? 7/16/2020
Q&A Where Is the Empathy for Me? 4/30/2020
Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 4/22/2020
Q&A Are There Questions That Would Make the Empathy Exercise More Productive and Healing? 4/16/2020
Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 2 - Not Getting It 3/04/2020
Q&A What Is Hindering My Mate from Showing Empathy? 1/31/2020
Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Mate Won't Make Amends? 11/22/2019
Q&A Why Is My Spouse Causing This Pain Instead of Showing Empathy? 11/21/2019
Q&A Can You Help My Understand Why the Empathy Exercises Have Been so Difficult for My Mate? 11/14/2019
Q&A Will I Ever Fully Understand My Mate's Pain? 10/16/2019
Q&A How Do I Show My Wife I Get It? 10/02/2019
Q&A Can Minimizing Childhood Trauma Affect the Ability to Take Responsibility and Show Empathy during Recovery? 9/13/2019
Q&A Why Is My Spouse Having a Difficult Time with Empathy When I'm Hurting? 9/11/2019
Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 6/26/2019
Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse Overcome Shame and Humiliation? 5/21/2019
Q&A Is There a Difference between Just Getting over What Happened and Forgiveness? 5/21/2019
Q&A How Do I Shift the Focus off My Mistakes and onto Healing? 5/21/2019
Q&A How Do I Convince My Wife I Love Her and Only Her? 4/30/2019
Q&A What Happens If I'm Not Seeing Remorse? 4/30/2019
Q&A How Can I Show Empathy without Getting Defensive? 4/30/2019
Q&A Why Isn't My Wayward Spouse Pursuing Me? 4/30/2019
Q&A How Do You Address Your Wounds While at the Same Time Feeling Remorse for Your Mate? 4/17/2019
Q&A Why Am I Struggling with Compassion and Understanding? 4/10/2019
Q&A Should I Try to Make Amends for My Part in the Failed Recovery? 3/13/2019
Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse? 3/06/2019
Q&A How Can My Mate Help Me Overcome the Loss? 3/04/2019
Q&A How Does a Betrayed Spouse Get past the Hurtful Words Said by the Wayward Spouse? 3/04/2019
Q&A What Does It Mean to Be a Safe Place for the Betrayed's Anger? 1/22/2019
Q&A What If I Don’t Feel Guilty? 12/14/2018
Q&A Should I Insist or Let It Go? 12/12/2018
Q&A How Can I Communicate That I Understand My Mates Pain? 12/05/2018
Q&A Why Isn’t My Mate Showing Empathy? 11/28/2018
Q&A Is Our Marriage Doomed Because My Mate Is Unwilling to Make Amends? 11/26/2018
Q&A How Do I Find Empathy? 11/21/2018
Q&A Am I Shaming My Husband When I Bring up His past Behaviors? 11/07/2018
Q&A How Do I Live with a Spouse That Is Grieving the Affair Partner? 11/01/2018
Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Move past Their Resentments? 11/01/2018
Q&A How Do We Heal When We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 11/01/2018
Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful 10/31/2018
Q&A How Can I Fix What I've Done? 10/23/2018
Q&A Can Empathy Be Learned? 10/23/2018
Q&A How Do We Both Deal with My Mates Shame? 9/26/2018
Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with Rejection? 9/20/2018
Q&A How Do I State Expectations without Being Codependent? 9/12/2018
Q&A Will My Desire for My Mate Return? 9/12/2018