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Q&A If We Move, Would We Be Running From Our Problems or Could It Help Our Recovery? Jul 10, 2024
Q&A As the Betrayed, Should I Focus on Avoiding the Affair Partner? Jul 10, 2024
Q&A Do I Have to Take a Polygraph? Jul 10, 2024
Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Quit Using ‘Absolutes'? Jul 10, 2024
Q&A Should I Risk Provoking My Affair Partner if It Makes My Mate Feel Better? Jul 10, 2024
Q&A How Can We Reconnect if I Don’t Know What Happened? Jul 10, 2024
Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much Control or Is the Wayward Spouse Being Unreasonable With a Lack of Boundaries? Jul 10, 2024
Q&A Do I Need to Allow the Wayward Spouse to Have More Time in the Recovery Process? Jul 10, 2024
Q&A What Should We Look for in a Therapist to Ensure They Can Provide the Specialized Support Needed for Infidelity Recovery? Jul 10, 2024
Q&A How Do I Reconnect Intimately With My Betrayed Husband Now Knowing That He Is Dealing with His Own Temptations? Jun 19, 2024
Q&A Can You Please Address the Problem of Grieving Memories Like Childbirth Under the Shadow of an Affair? Jun 19, 2024
Q&A Is It Advisable to Leave This Church and Find Another Church Home to Help With Restoration and Recovery? Jun 19, 2024
Q&A How Do I Stop the Comparisons, Build Confidence, and Get Better at Sex Without Feeling Like I’m Trying to Be Like the Affair Partner? Jun 19, 2024
Q&A What Is the Best Way to Build Trust Around My Husband’s Actions and My Triggers? Jun 13, 2024
Q&A Is It Okay for the Unfaithful to Masturbate While I, the Betrayed, Can’t Be Intimate Right Now Because of Lack of Emotional Connection and a Lot of Hurt? Jun 13, 2024
Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done? Jun 13, 2024
Q&A Will I Ever Accept His Reasons for the Affairs? Jun 13, 2024
Q&A Could You Give a Tangible Example of the Statement, ‘My Mate Is Never My Problem. My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me’? May 28, 2024
Q&A How Is It Helpful to Label Someone for the Rest of Their Life When They Have Changed Directions? May 14, 2024
Q&A Does My Mate Still Have Feelings for His Affair Partner? May 14, 2024
Q&A How Do I Know When My Husband is Safe Again? May 7, 2024
Q&A How Do You Walk Your Heart Through Acceptance? May 7, 2024
Q&A How Do I Address Her Readiness to Engage With Someone So Despicable Versus Her Resistance to Reconnect Intimately With Me? May 7, 2024
Q&A How Much Does Alcohol Play a Factor in a One Night Stand? Apr 25, 2024
Q&A What Do You Recommend for Support for Those Going through the Lonely and Brutal Unique Situation of a Divorce Post Affair? Apr 25, 2024


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