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Q&A Am I Wrong to Still Be in This Much Pain? May 19, 2023
Q&A How Can I Have Hope for My Mates Recovery with Those Odds? May 19, 2023
Q&A Why Do I Still Respond Physically like I Am Lying When I’m Telling the Truth? May 19, 2023
Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted? May 19, 2023
Q&A How Do We Navigate Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t Believe They Are Committing Infidelity? May 19, 2023
Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal? May 19, 2023
Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing? May 19, 2023
Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate? May 19, 2023
Q&A How Do I Handle a New Betrayal Immediately after EMS Weekend? May 2, 2023
Q&A I’m Losing Compassion for My Mate. What Can I Do? May 2, 2023
Q&A Is It My Fault That They Did What They Did? May 2, 2023
Q&A How Do I Get past the Shame and Hurt? May 2, 2023
Q&A What Do I Do When My Spouse Is Making Me Choose between Her and My Faith? May 2, 2023
Q&A How Does One Find a Reputable and Affordable Polygraph Test Provider? May 2, 2023
Q&A Is My Mate’s Inability to Experience Emotions Due to Deep Trauma or Something More Problematic? May 2, 2023
Q&A How Do You Recommend I Write My Closure Letter to the Affair Partner? Apr 20, 2023
Q&A Is It Necessary for Him to Be Proactive or Should I Be Happy He’s Doing What I Ask of Him? Apr 12, 2023
Q&A What If the Only Way I Can Heal Is without Horizontal Forgiveness? Apr 12, 2023
Q&A How Do We Handle Workplace Triggers in Recovery? Apr 12, 2023
Q&A Do You Think My Spouse Is Being Honest about Why They Stayed in the Affair for So Long? Apr 12, 2023
Q&A What Is the Best Way for Us to Utilize EMS Online since We Have Both Been Unfaithful? Apr 12, 2023
Q&A What Type of Affair Is This? Apr 12, 2023
Q&A How Do I Cope with My Own Issues of Needing to Feel Understood by My Husband as the Wayward Spouse? Apr 12, 2023
Q&A How Can Someone Who Has Become Such an Accomplished Liar Prove to the Betrayed Spouse That They Can Be Trusted? Apr 12, 2023
Q&A How Do You Discern If a Person Is Truly Remorseful and Changing When They Relapse into Blaming the Betrayed? Apr 12, 2023


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