Separation and Divorce
When should divorce be an option? Learn when to consider divorce and how to move forward after a divorce or separation.
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360 Resources
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Video Q&A What Do You Recommend for Support for Those Going through the Lonely and Brutal Unique Situation of a Divorce Post Affair? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A Is Minimal Contact the Right Thing to Do at This Moment? 9/29/2023
Video Q&A Is It Possible for the Individual to Find Healing and Purpose Even If the Marriage Doesn’t Survive? 3/17/2023
Video Q&A How Can You Connect during a Structured In-House Separation? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A Why Would You Have a Group of People Trying to Recover from Infidelity Being Led by a Single Female Who Is Divorced? 12/06/2022
Text Life After Divorce: How the Unfaithful Sees It 8/03/2022
Text Should I Get a Divorce? Am I Being Naive? 7/27/2022
Video Q&A What Are the Signs I Should Run and Not Bother Wasting My Time or Emotions on Trying to Make My Marriage Work? 7/01/2022
Video Q&A Can You Please Give Me a Detailed Outline of What a Structured Separation Is and How to Implement It? 4/06/2022
Video Q&A Is This Finally Enough to Divorce and End Recovery Work? 1/18/2022
Video Q&A Is It Appropriate to Try Separating While Also Helping the Betrayed Spouse Heal? 9/08/2021
Video Q&A Should I Let Him Go? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A Do I Sell My House with My Unfaithful Spouse in It? 7/13/2021
Video Q&A Do I Let Go of My Attachment to Her Now or Wait until Our Courses Are Complete? 7/13/2021
Video Q&A Am I Hurting Us More by Not Letting Him Live at Home? 6/16/2021
Video Q&A What Is the Divorce Rate beyond 5 Years after Recovery? 6/16/2021
Video Q&A When Faced with Such a Painful Outcome as This, What Is a Spouse Able to Do Aside from Self-Care and Healing? 6/16/2021
Video Q&A Is It Better to Ignore Him When He Is Trying to Reach Out and Connect or Should I Respond in Kind to Try to Maintain the Peace? 4/29/2021
Video Q&A How Do We Safely and Respectfully Navigate Reconciliation, and Re-Integration to the Home, While Separated? 3/22/2021
Video Q&A Why Does He Keep Reaching Out to Me If He Is Still in the Affair? 3/04/2021
Video Q&A Why Is My Ex-Husband Now Playing the Victim? 3/04/2021
Video Q&A Should I Stay in the Marriage for My Kids? 1/20/2021
Video Q&A Should I Even Consider Staying or Working on the Marriage? 1/07/2021
Video Q&A Once You Have Done Your Own Work to Heal, How Do You Know If You Should Stay? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A Is It Time to Just Formally End My Marriage? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A Is It Codependent to Stay in a Marriage for the Happiness of Your Children? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Should I File for Divorce? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Would Leaving the Marriage Now That He Is Sick Seem Heartless and Cruel? 10/22/2020
Video Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy for the Unfaithful 9/23/2020
Video Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy for the Betrayed 9/16/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Process My Husband's Behavior While We Were Divorced? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A Should I Be Working on Being Strong Enough to Leave? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A Should I Spend the Last Best Years of My Life Married, Surviving Infidelity, or Divorced? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A Should I Just Ask Him to Move Out and Focus on Myself? 8/13/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husband Moving Forward with the Affair Partner? 8/06/2020
Video Q&A Are All Marriages Worth Saving? 7/30/2020
Video Q&A Should We Separate If My Mate Is Still Unsafe? 7/16/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Tell If It's the Hurt and Pain or If She Really Wants a Divorce? 6/25/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Deal with Hurtful Comments and Lies after a Divorce? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Recovery during Separation? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Ex-husband's Motive? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Splitting the Household While Attempting Recovery? 6/03/2020
Video Q&A Do I Stay Separated or Divorce If This Never Changes? 4/28/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Make the Hard Decision to Stay or Move on after All These Years? 4/28/2020
Video Q&A Is It Time for Me to Find My Own Counselor and Begin to Exit This Relationship? 4/28/2020
Video Q&A Is It Time for a Separation? 4/02/2020
Video Q&A Is It Time to Let Go and Move On? 2/14/2020
Video Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave? 1/16/2020
Video Q&A How Long Should I Stay and Work on the Relationship before Leaving? 1/02/2020
Video Q&A How Can We Achieve Closure and Develop a New Healthy Parenting Relationship? 1/02/2020