Q&A Are All Marriages Worth Saving?

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My husband was unfaithful through out the courtship and even days after saying his vows. The acting out behaviors never stopped until he was caught in May 2020. Now I discover there were ten women he had emotional and/or sexual affairs with. We have only been "married" for 1.5 years. I am beyond crushed. I tell him he never should have married me knowing he was not committed to the covenant of marriage and loving by choice, as was I. Now, we are in EMS Online and he wants to "save the marriage". I say- "what marriage?" When can you honestly say, there was never a marriage to begin with so what is there to save?

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How can I talk To someone? I need help. My husband literally uses Wayne’s, Samuels, and Ricks posts to emotionally abuse me.

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How can I talk To someone? I need help. My husband literally uses Wayne’s, Samuels, and Ricks posts to emotionally abuse me.

I wish I had been in this person’s EMSO group

This is exactly my situation as well. Married in March of 2018, found out in May of 2018 that he had been cheating on me our entire courtship and only stopped for the weekend we got married. He moved out to continue his main affair in June of 2018, moved back in September of 2018, saying he wanted our marriage. Found out later he continued cheating on me emotionally with at least 7 people even after he moved back in, and continued his relationship with his main affair partner until February of 2019 when I made him change his phone number. Even after that, he kept reaching out to her telling her how she was the one he wanted and he would never get over her, all while trying to convince me he was trying to repair our marriage. We just finish EMSO last week and really didn’t have anyone in our group who we could relate to. It’s such an uphill battle with this type of situation. I really wish we could have connected with this couple.