Q&A How Can I Tell If It's the Hurt and Pain or If She Really Wants a Divorce?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Thu, 06/25/2020 - 13:28

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My wife and I were both unfaithful to each other. We did the EMS weekend and Married for Life. She completed Harboring Hope and she insists that I complete Hope for Healing as if I don't need to heal from her actions. She now says that she wants a divorce because I'm not doing the work as she expects or requests. How can I tell if it's the hurt and pain or if she really wants a divorce?

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