For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How do you respond to blackmail? Part II How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How to Survive Infidelity Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? The Problem with Forgiveness Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Recovery Timeline The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted We Started Well, but... Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected 277 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can an Unfaithful Spouse Develop Emotional Intelligence? 9/13/2022 The Fantasyland of an Affair 8/24/2022 Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 8/17/2022 Q&A Is It Strange for the Unfaithful to Have Depression? 8/03/2022 Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 7/20/2022 Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership? 7/07/2022 Q&A Am I Just Playing the Victim to Reduce My Guilt? 7/01/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 6/15/2022 Q&A How Do I Respond to the Betrayed’s Triggers When It’s Affecting My Mental Health Now? 6/14/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 6/08/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It 6/01/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 5/25/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? 5/18/2022 Wanting to Be Wanted 5/04/2022 Q&A Why Can’t I Give My Spouse Full Disclosure? 4/20/2022 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Discuss the Questions That Most Wayward Spouses Get from the Betrayed? 4/20/2022 Q&A How Do We Handle Disclosure When My Infidelity Was So Long Ago and I Can’t Remember All the Details? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Should I as a Wayward Spouse Approach My Spouse’s Continual Desire for Reassurance? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Do I Emotionally Connect with Someone Who Treats Me This Way? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Long Does It Take for Desire for My Mate to Return after Severing Ties with My Affair Partners? 3/10/2022 Q&A How Long Should I Accept and Validate His Exaggerated Reactions as a Result of My Previously Reckless Behaviors? 2/17/2022 Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair 2/16/2022 Q&A What Do We Do When We Both Cheated, If My Betrayal Was ‘Worse’ than His? 1/18/2022 Q&A Will the Betrayed’s Irritability Ever Go Away? 1/18/2022 Q&A What Do I Do When the Betrayed Spouse Shuts Me Out and Doesn’t Want to Talk about His Pain, Unless Forced? 1/18/2022 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 1/12/2022 Surviving the Holidays: 7 Tips 12/22/2021 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand the Importance of Knowing the ‘Why’ and Also How to Can I Help Him See That It’s Not an Excuse or Blaming Anything? 12/17/2021 Social Shame: Surviving Infidelity Isn’t Enough 12/08/2021 Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 12/01/2021 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 11/24/2021 Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Wife with Her Depression That Has Escalated Dramatically since Discovery? 11/04/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 4: The Problem With Addictions 11/03/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 3: Do They Have an Addiction? 10/27/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 2: Entrapped or Enchanted 10/20/2021 Why Did They Cheat? Part 1:The Role of Oxytocin 10/13/2021 Q&A Should I Continue EMS Online on My Own? 10/07/2021 The #1 Challenge to Recovery 9/29/2021 Healing After An Affair: Emotional Flooding & Reminders 9/22/2021 How Do You Deal With Anger After Infidelity? 7/28/2021 Denial and Recovery After an Affair 7/14/2021 Q&A Will My Husband Love Me Again, the Way He Used To? 7/08/2021 Q&A When My Mate Floods, Why Do I Get Distressed In Turn? 7/08/2021 How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity? 7/07/2021 The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful 6/23/2021 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Calm After Disclosing the Truth? 6/17/2021 Q&A Are My Good Acts Just More Manipulation? 6/03/2021 Mental Health and Parenting: How to Support Yourself and Your Kids 6/02/2021 Pages123456next ›last »
