For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How to Survive Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Problem with Forgiveness Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 310 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery? 7/26/2024 Q&A Do I Have to Take a Polygraph? 7/10/2024 Q&A Should I Risk Provoking My Affair Partner if It Makes My Mate Feel Better? 7/10/2024 Q&A How Do I Reconnect Intimately With My Betrayed Husband Now Knowing That He Is Dealing with His Own Temptations? 6/19/2024 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 6/19/2024 Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done? 6/13/2024 Q&A How Do I Do Everything Right at Every Moment for My Wife? 4/25/2024 Q&A Why Should I Stay With My Current Wife When I Really Want to Be With My Ex-Wife? 3/19/2024 Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Feel Safe When She Is Triggered? 2/28/2024 Manifestation of Shame Part 1: The Unfaithful 2/21/2024 Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair 2/14/2024 What Does Doing the Work of Infidelity Recovery Mean for the Unfaithful - Infidelity Recovery 1/24/2024 What is Healing? 1/10/2024 Surviving the Holidays: 6 Tips 12/20/2023 Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends? 12/12/2023 Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning? 11/28/2023 Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 11/01/2023 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Sexual Addiction When Everything I’ve Tried Isn’t Working? 10/23/2023 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 10/04/2023 Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders 9/20/2023 Q&A Do I Have the Right to Know What My Spouse Is Doing to Monitor Me? 9/12/2023 How Do You Deal With Anger After Infidelity? 9/06/2023 Relapse: Why Can't You Stop? 8/23/2023 Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure? 8/15/2023 The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful 7/26/2023 How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity? 7/19/2023 Denial and Recovery After an Affair 7/05/2023 Hope for Healing Excerpt: 'Is My Life Out of Control?' 6/21/2023 Q&A How Can I Continue to Be Empathetic to Her If in Spite of All I Do, It Is Still Not Enough? 6/16/2023 Q&A I Understand the Importance of Not Being Defensive about the Infidelity or Betrayal, but Does That Extend into Every Aspect of Our Lives? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Did ADHD and Other Factors Like Depression and Anxiety Contribute to My Affairs? 6/16/2023 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/24/2023 Q&A Why Do I Still Respond Physically like I Am Lying When I’m Telling the Truth? 5/19/2023 Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted? 5/19/2023 Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity 5/17/2023 Q&A I’m Losing Compassion for My Mate. What Can I Do? 5/02/2023 Q&A How Do You Recommend I Write My Closure Letter to the Affair Partner? 4/20/2023 Q&A Do We Have a Chance at Recovery If He Is Unable to Understand How Trauma Can Impact Me? 3/17/2023 Q&A How Do I Approach This Polygraph without Feeling like My Marriage Is on the Line? 3/17/2023 Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 3/15/2023 Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate That I’m Not Talking to the Affair Partner? 3/02/2023 Q&A How Do I Explain Disassociation and It’s Part in the Affair? 1/26/2023 Q&A How Do I Help My Husband Understand the Effects of Trauma While Also Letting Him See That It Is Not an Excuse for My Actions? 1/11/2023 Q&A How Do I Explain That My Childhood Trauma Triggered My Actions and Doesn’t Remove My Accountability Even If I Did Disassociate? 1/11/2023 Q&A What Is a Realistic Timeline for My Own Recovery with C-PTSD and Childhood Trauma and Being Able to Answer Every Specifically Detailed ‘Why'? 1/11/2023 Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 1/04/2023 Q&A How Do I Get over All of the Pain That I Have Caused? 12/06/2022 Pleasing Versus Loving 11/29/2022 How to survive an affair – How much should I share with my spouse? 11/15/2022 The Mystery of Change 11/02/2022 Pages1234567next ›last »
