For the Unfaithful Spouse
Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse.
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Video Q&A How Do I Reconnect Intimately With My Betrayed Husband Now Knowing That He Is Dealing with His Own Temptations? 6/19/2024
Text Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 6/19/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done? 6/13/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Do Everything Right at Every Moment for My Wife? 4/25/2024
Video Q&A Why Should I Stay With My Current Wife When I Really Want to Be With My Ex-Wife? 3/19/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Feel Safe When She Is Triggered? 2/28/2024
Video Manifestation of Shame Part 1: The Unfaithful 2/21/2024
Video Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair 2/14/2024
Video What Does Doing the Work of Infidelity Recovery Mean for the Unfaithful - Infidelity Recovery 1/24/2024
Text What is Healing? 1/10/2024
Text Surviving the Holidays: 6 Tips 12/20/2023
Text Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends? 12/12/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning? 11/28/2023
Text Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 11/01/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With My Sexual Addiction When Everything I’ve Tried Isn’t Working? 10/23/2023
Text Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 10/04/2023
Text Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders 9/20/2023
Video Q&A Do I Have the Right to Know What My Spouse Is Doing to Monitor Me? 9/12/2023
Text How Do You Deal With Anger After Infidelity? 9/06/2023
Text Relapse: Why Can't You Stop? 8/23/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure? 8/15/2023
Text The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful 7/26/2023
Text How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity? 7/19/2023
Text Denial and Recovery After an Affair 7/05/2023
Text Hope for Healing Excerpt: 'Is My Life Out of Control?' 6/21/2023
Video Q&A How Can I Continue to Be Empathetic to Her If in Spite of All I Do, It Is Still Not Enough? 6/16/2023
Video Q&A I Understand the Importance of Not Being Defensive about the Infidelity or Betrayal, but Does That Extend into Every Aspect of Our Lives? 6/16/2023
Video Q&A How Did ADHD and Other Factors Like Depression and Anxiety Contribute to My Affairs? 6/16/2023
Text How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/24/2023
Video Q&A Why Do I Still Respond Physically like I Am Lying When I’m Telling the Truth? 5/19/2023
Video Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted? 5/19/2023
Text Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity 5/17/2023
Video Q&A I’m Losing Compassion for My Mate. What Can I Do? 5/02/2023
Video Q&A How Do You Recommend I Write My Closure Letter to the Affair Partner? 4/20/2023
Video Q&A Do We Have a Chance at Recovery If He Is Unable to Understand How Trauma Can Impact Me? 3/17/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Approach This Polygraph without Feeling like My Marriage Is on the Line? 3/17/2023
Text Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 3/15/2023
Video Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate That I’m Not Talking to the Affair Partner? 3/02/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Explain Disassociation and It’s Part in the Affair? 1/26/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Husband Understand the Effects of Trauma While Also Letting Him See That It Is Not an Excuse for My Actions? 1/11/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Explain That My Childhood Trauma Triggered My Actions and Doesn’t Remove My Accountability Even If I Did Disassociate? 1/11/2023
Video Q&A What Is a Realistic Timeline for My Own Recovery with C-PTSD and Childhood Trauma and Being Able to Answer Every Specifically Detailed ‘Why'? 1/11/2023
Text Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 1/04/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Get over All of the Pain That I Have Caused? 12/06/2022
Text Pleasing Versus Loving 11/29/2022
Text How to survive an affair – How much should I share with my spouse? 11/15/2022
Text The Mystery of Change 11/02/2022
Text Am I Who They Want? 10/19/2022
Video Q&A Are My Kids Really ‘Love Children’ from My Affairs? 10/13/2022
Video Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Work through the Deception Regarding the Infidelity? 10/13/2022

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