For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Power of Small Groups Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How to Survive Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 312 Resources Type Title Posted Reclaiming Dignity and Worth as a Woman with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC 8/28/2024 How to Find Answers 8/21/2024 Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship? 7/31/2024 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery? 7/26/2024 Q&A Do I Have to Take a Polygraph? 7/10/2024 Q&A Should I Risk Provoking My Affair Partner if It Makes My Mate Feel Better? 7/10/2024 Q&A How Do I Reconnect Intimately With My Betrayed Husband Now Knowing That He Is Dealing with His Own Temptations? 6/19/2024 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 6/19/2024 Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done? 6/13/2024 Q&A How Do I Do Everything Right at Every Moment for My Wife? 4/25/2024 Q&A Why Should I Stay With My Current Wife When I Really Want to Be With My Ex-Wife? 3/19/2024 Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Feel Safe When She Is Triggered? 2/28/2024 Manifestation of Shame Part 1: The Unfaithful 2/21/2024 Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair 2/14/2024 What Does Doing the Work of Infidelity Recovery Mean for the Unfaithful - Infidelity Recovery 1/24/2024 What is Healing? 1/10/2024 Surviving the Holidays: 6 Tips 12/20/2023 Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends? 12/12/2023 Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning? 11/28/2023 Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 11/01/2023 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Sexual Addiction When Everything I’ve Tried Isn’t Working? 10/23/2023 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 10/04/2023 Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders 9/20/2023 Q&A Do I Have the Right to Know What My Spouse Is Doing to Monitor Me? 9/12/2023 How Do You Deal With Anger After Infidelity? 9/06/2023 Relapse: Why Can't You Stop? 8/23/2023 Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure? 8/15/2023 The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful 7/26/2023 How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity? 7/19/2023 Denial and Recovery After an Affair 7/05/2023 Hope for Healing Excerpt: 'Is My Life Out of Control?' 6/21/2023 Q&A How Can I Continue to Be Empathetic to Her If in Spite of All I Do, It Is Still Not Enough? 6/16/2023 Q&A I Understand the Importance of Not Being Defensive about the Infidelity or Betrayal, but Does That Extend into Every Aspect of Our Lives? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Did ADHD and Other Factors Like Depression and Anxiety Contribute to My Affairs? 6/16/2023 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/24/2023 Q&A Why Do I Still Respond Physically like I Am Lying When I’m Telling the Truth? 5/19/2023 Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted? 5/19/2023 Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity 5/17/2023 Q&A I’m Losing Compassion for My Mate. What Can I Do? 5/02/2023 Q&A How Do You Recommend I Write My Closure Letter to the Affair Partner? 4/20/2023 Q&A Do We Have a Chance at Recovery If He Is Unable to Understand How Trauma Can Impact Me? 3/17/2023 Q&A How Do I Approach This Polygraph without Feeling like My Marriage Is on the Line? 3/17/2023 Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 3/15/2023 Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate That I’m Not Talking to the Affair Partner? 3/02/2023 Q&A How Do I Explain Disassociation and It’s Part in the Affair? 1/26/2023 Q&A How Do I Help My Husband Understand the Effects of Trauma While Also Letting Him See That It Is Not an Excuse for My Actions? 1/11/2023 Q&A How Do I Explain That My Childhood Trauma Triggered My Actions and Doesn’t Remove My Accountability Even If I Did Disassociate? 1/11/2023 Q&A What Is a Realistic Timeline for My Own Recovery with C-PTSD and Childhood Trauma and Being Able to Answer Every Specifically Detailed ‘Why'? 1/11/2023 Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 1/04/2023 Q&A How Do I Get over All of the Pain That I Have Caused? 12/06/2022 Pages1234567next ›last »
