Q&A How Do I Do Everything Right at Every Moment for My Wife?

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I am the unfaithful spouse and recently discovered sex addict. I have other problems as well but how do I do everything right at every moment for my wife? I have been trying so hard and still feel like I’m coming up short! We did EMS Online and we’re both in our own personal course, were doing therapy, I started my program in SAA, attending meeting regularly and I’m still having issues with staying consistent and being the person I want to be. I know my wife doesn’t deserve any of this pain I have created, how do I stay on track to keep my marriage safe and help her heal?? I just love her so much with hope she still wants this marriage but with every hiccup that comes up i feel her patience’s is wearing thinner and thinner. Do you have any advice about staying consistent and helping her heal?



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