Recovering Alone
Recovery can be won even if your spouse is not willing to participate just yet. What is most important is your own individual recovery so that you can thrive in a life of new hope and restoration.
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164 Resources
Type Title Posted
Text How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/24/2023
Video Q&A Is It Possible for the Individual to Find Healing and Purpose Even If the Marriage Doesn’t Survive? 3/17/2023
Text Healing from Infidelity: Going it alone 3/01/2023
Video Q&A Is It Better to Ignore Him When He Is Trying to Reach Out and Connect or Should I Respond in Kind to Try to Maintain the Peace? 4/29/2021
Video Q&A Why Does He Keep Reaching Out to Me If He Is Still in the Affair? 3/04/2021
Video Q&A Is It Time for Me to Find My Own Counselor and Begin to Exit This Relationship? 4/28/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear around My Ex-Wife's Possible Relationship? 3/16/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Isn't Willing to Get Help? 11/21/2019
Video Q&A How Will I Know If It's Safe for My Spouse to Move Back in with Me? 9/26/2019
Video Q&A Do I Need to Have My Mate Move Out? 9/26/2019
Video Q&A What Would You Recommend for Spouses Who Lose Their Mate to Suicide during Recovery? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A Can I Ever Get Passed Sharing My Daughter with the Affair Partner? 9/13/2019
Video Q&A When Do We Leave out of Our Own Self Respect? 7/10/2019
Video Q&A Do You Recommend a Separation in Our Circumstance? 7/10/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Start a New Life? 5/21/2019
Video Q&A How Do I Move On? 8/08/2018
Video Q&A Do I Let Her Go? 8/08/2018
Text The Infidelity Divorce Syndrome: Divorce Recovery After Infidelity 6/21/2018
Video Q&A How Do I Work on the Marriage with an Unfaithful Wife That Won't Do Recovery Work? 4/05/2018
Video Q&A How Do I Deal with His Inability to Face What This Did to Us? 4/05/2018
Video Q&A What Should I Do If My Mate Isn't Trying to Recover? 3/23/2018
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Guilt for Ending the Marriage? 2/28/2018
Video Q&A What Steps Should I Take for Personal Healing? 2/14/2018
Video Q&A What Do You Do When You Spouse Refuses Help and Wants Divorce? 1/22/2018
Video Q&A Should I Just Suck It Up? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A Is It Time to Move On? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A Why Do You Work on a Marriage You Might End up Leaving? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A Where Does Self-Love Fit in to the Process of Recovery? 12/20/2017
Video Q&A (HFH) How Can I Connect with My Mate If They Don’t Want Me? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Unfaithful Still Justifies the Affair with Marriage Deficits? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Handle Separation during EMS Online? 10/09/2017
Video Q&A Can Separation Increase the Time It Takes a Couple to Recover? 10/09/2017
Video Q&A What Do I Do with My Husband's Lack of Remorse? 10/05/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Get the Care I Need When He Doesn't Care about Himself? 10/05/2017
Video Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal? 9/20/2017
Video Q&A Is It Normal for My Unfaithful Mate to Act This Way? 9/20/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Continue Healing When I'm Surrounded by My Mates Negativity? 9/06/2017
Video Q&A When Is It My Turn for Healing? 9/06/2017
Video Q&A What Do You Recommend for Personal Healing? 8/18/2017
Video Q&A Do You Think My Unfaithful Spouse Will Return? 8/18/2017
Video Q&A Will I Get through Post Affair Anger or Is Moving Away the Best Answer? 8/16/2017
Video Q&A What Should My Next Step Be? 8/11/2017
Video Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Maintain My Boundaries and File for Divorce? 8/11/2017
Video Q&A What Do You Do When Your Spouse Is Withholding from You? 8/10/2017
Video Q&A Do I Keep Moving towards Him in Hopes He Will Leave It All behind, Once and for All? 8/10/2017
Video Q&A Is It Time to Let Go? 8/02/2017
Video Q&A Is It Time to Move Forward? 8/02/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Maintain My Stand to Not Tolerate His Behavior While Not Ruining a Co-Parenting Relationship? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Heal When I Feel He’s Lying and Still Entangled with a Coworker? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Proceed without Acknowledgement That It Was an Affair? 7/12/2017