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Healing After An Affair 164 Resources Type Title Posted How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/24/2023 Q&A Is It Possible for the Individual to Find Healing and Purpose Even If the Marriage Doesn’t Survive? 3/17/2023 Healing from Infidelity: Going it alone 3/01/2023 Q&A Is It Better to Ignore Him When He Is Trying to Reach Out and Connect or Should I Respond in Kind to Try to Maintain the Peace? 4/29/2021 Q&A Why Does He Keep Reaching Out to Me If He Is Still in the Affair? 3/04/2021 Q&A Is It Time for Me to Find My Own Counselor and Begin to Exit This Relationship? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear around My Ex-Wife's Possible Relationship? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Isn't Willing to Get Help? 11/21/2019 Q&A How Will I Know If It's Safe for My Spouse to Move Back in with Me? 9/26/2019 Q&A Do I Need to Have My Mate Move Out? 9/26/2019 Q&A What Would You Recommend for Spouses Who Lose Their Mate to Suicide during Recovery? 9/13/2019 Q&A Can I Ever Get Passed Sharing My Daughter with the Affair Partner? 9/13/2019 Q&A When Do We Leave out of Our Own Self Respect? 7/10/2019 Q&A Do You Recommend a Separation in Our Circumstance? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Start a New Life? 5/21/2019 Q&A How Do I Move On? 8/08/2018 Q&A Do I Let Her Go? 8/08/2018 The Infidelity Divorce Syndrome: Divorce Recovery After Infidelity 6/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Work on the Marriage with an Unfaithful Wife That Won't Do Recovery Work? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with His Inability to Face What This Did to Us? 4/05/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mate Isn't Trying to Recover? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Guilt for Ending the Marriage? 2/28/2018 Q&A What Steps Should I Take for Personal Healing? 2/14/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When You Spouse Refuses Help and Wants Divorce? 1/22/2018 Q&A Should I Just Suck It Up? 12/20/2017 Q&A Is It Time to Move On? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Do You Work on a Marriage You Might End up Leaving? 12/20/2017 Q&A Where Does Self-Love Fit in to the Process of Recovery? 12/20/2017 Q&A (HFH) How Can I Connect with My Mate If They Don’t Want Me? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Unfaithful Still Justifies the Affair with Marriage Deficits? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle Separation during EMS Online? 10/09/2017 Q&A Can Separation Increase the Time It Takes a Couple to Recover? 10/09/2017 Q&A What Do I Do with My Husband's Lack of Remorse? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Get the Care I Need When He Doesn't Care about Himself? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal? 9/20/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for My Unfaithful Mate to Act This Way? 9/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Continue Healing When I'm Surrounded by My Mates Negativity? 9/06/2017 Q&A When Is It My Turn for Healing? 9/06/2017 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Personal Healing? 8/18/2017 Q&A Do You Think My Unfaithful Spouse Will Return? 8/18/2017 Q&A Will I Get through Post Affair Anger or Is Moving Away the Best Answer? 8/16/2017 Q&A What Should My Next Step Be? 8/11/2017 Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Maintain My Boundaries and File for Divorce? 8/11/2017 Q&A What Do You Do When Your Spouse Is Withholding from You? 8/10/2017 Q&A Do I Keep Moving towards Him in Hopes He Will Leave It All behind, Once and for All? 8/10/2017 Q&A Is It Time to Let Go? 8/02/2017 Q&A Is It Time to Move Forward? 8/02/2017 Q&A How Do I Maintain My Stand to Not Tolerate His Behavior While Not Ruining a Co-Parenting Relationship? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Heal When I Feel He’s Lying and Still Entangled with a Coworker? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Proceed without Acknowledgement That It Was an Affair? 7/12/2017 Pages1234next ›last »