Recovering Alone Recovery can be won even if your spouse is not willing to participate just yet. What is most important is your own individual recovery so that you can thrive in a life of new hope and restoration. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why Did My Spouse Cheat? How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Recovery Timeline The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The 2 Stages of Pain Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? How to Survive Infidelity We Started Well, but... Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 164 Resources Type Title Posted How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/24/2023 Q&A Is It Possible for the Individual to Find Healing and Purpose Even If the Marriage Doesn’t Survive? 3/17/2023 Healing from Infidelity: Going it alone 3/01/2023 Q&A Is It Better to Ignore Him When He Is Trying to Reach Out and Connect or Should I Respond in Kind to Try to Maintain the Peace? 4/29/2021 Q&A Why Does He Keep Reaching Out to Me If He Is Still in the Affair? 3/04/2021 Q&A Is It Time for Me to Find My Own Counselor and Begin to Exit This Relationship? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear around My Ex-Wife's Possible Relationship? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Isn't Willing to Get Help? 11/21/2019 Q&A How Will I Know If It's Safe for My Spouse to Move Back in with Me? 9/26/2019 Q&A Do I Need to Have My Mate Move Out? 9/26/2019 Q&A What Would You Recommend for Spouses Who Lose Their Mate to Suicide during Recovery? 9/13/2019 Q&A Can I Ever Get Passed Sharing My Daughter with the Affair Partner? 9/13/2019 Q&A When Do We Leave out of Our Own Self Respect? 7/10/2019 Q&A Do You Recommend a Separation in Our Circumstance? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Start a New Life? 5/21/2019 Q&A How Do I Move On? 8/08/2018 Q&A Do I Let Her Go? 8/08/2018 The Infidelity Divorce Syndrome: Divorce Recovery After Infidelity 6/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Work on the Marriage with an Unfaithful Wife That Won't Do Recovery Work? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with His Inability to Face What This Did to Us? 4/05/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mate Isn't Trying to Recover? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Guilt for Ending the Marriage? 2/28/2018 Q&A What Steps Should I Take for Personal Healing? 2/14/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When You Spouse Refuses Help and Wants Divorce? 1/22/2018 Q&A Should I Just Suck It Up? 12/20/2017 Q&A Is It Time to Move On? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Do You Work on a Marriage You Might End up Leaving? 12/20/2017 Q&A Where Does Self-Love Fit in to the Process of Recovery? 12/20/2017 Q&A (HFH) How Can I Connect with My Mate If They Don’t Want Me? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Unfaithful Still Justifies the Affair with Marriage Deficits? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle Separation during EMS Online? 10/09/2017 Q&A Can Separation Increase the Time It Takes a Couple to Recover? 10/09/2017 Q&A What Do I Do with My Husband's Lack of Remorse? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Get the Care I Need When He Doesn't Care about Himself? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal? 9/20/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for My Unfaithful Mate to Act This Way? 9/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Continue Healing When I'm Surrounded by My Mates Negativity? 9/06/2017 Q&A When Is It My Turn for Healing? 9/06/2017 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Personal Healing? 8/18/2017 Q&A Do You Think My Unfaithful Spouse Will Return? 8/18/2017 Q&A Will I Get through Post Affair Anger or Is Moving Away the Best Answer? 8/16/2017 Q&A What Should My Next Step Be? 8/11/2017 Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Maintain My Boundaries and File for Divorce? 8/11/2017 Q&A What Do You Do When Your Spouse Is Withholding from You? 8/10/2017 Q&A Do I Keep Moving towards Him in Hopes He Will Leave It All behind, Once and for All? 8/10/2017 Q&A Is It Time to Let Go? 8/02/2017 Q&A Is It Time to Move Forward? 8/02/2017 Q&A How Do I Maintain My Stand to Not Tolerate His Behavior While Not Ruining a Co-Parenting Relationship? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Heal When I Feel He’s Lying and Still Entangled with a Coworker? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Proceed without Acknowledgement That It Was an Affair? 7/12/2017 Pages1234next ›last »
