Q&A Is It Time to Move On?

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My husband and I completed EMS in February of 2014. At that point it was the second time I had discovered he was back with his AP. We completed Married for Life as well after EMS. Problems continued in my opinion due my continued doubt that he had actually left his AP. I never quite believed it. Plus I never felt much empathy from his part for what had occurred. I’m now in Harboring Hope as I found out again that he was back with his AP. This is the third time I discover he’s back in the affair. I’m confused as to how to proceed because he says that work and repair for our marriage must be completed by me. He says we wouldn’t be in this situation if I’d made our recovery easier in 2014. His unwillingness to do anything makes me believe it’s time to move on. What are your opinions? Both of you were part of our recovery team in 2014.



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