Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question My husband of 27 years is having an affair for the second time in our years together. His first affair happened 19 years ago, and he was never really remorseful for that affair, actually I am confused as to why he even told me. Everything that was done was under his guidelines, I couldn't ask many questions, I couldn't make any comments, I couldn't really say or do anything that he didn't agree with. Actually now through counseling he h…