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A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 1243 Resources Type Title Posted Do’s & Don’ts of Emotional Flooding 4/30/2025 Q&A As the Betrayed, Is It Wise to Seek Closure with the Affair Partner? 4/23/2025 Deciding to Stay: Practical Ways to Rebuild Safety 4/23/2025 Q&A How Do We Move past This Set-Back in Our Recovery? 4/16/2025 Q&A Do You Suggest He Focus On Healing Himself First, Then Our Marriage? 4/09/2025 Q&A How Do We Restore the Relationship with Our Adult Children? 4/09/2025 Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Gather Evidence in Order to Move On from This? 4/09/2025 The Myth of Greener Grass in Marriage 4/09/2025 Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 4/02/2025 Q&A How Do I Find a Way to Show Compassion or Empathy When I Find Myself Empty of It in the Moment? 4/01/2025 Q&A Can You Shed Light on Pass/Fail Outcomes and Eye-Scan Polygraph Tests? 4/01/2025 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Journaling as a Betrayed Spouse? 3/26/2025 Ending An Affair: Throw Away the Key 3/26/2025 Revenge: Responding to an Affair 3/19/2025 Q&A Can You Give Me Insight on What Therapy Modalities Would Be Best for Me? 3/11/2025 Wanting to Be Wanted 3/05/2025 Am I Who They Want? 2/25/2025 Q&A Does It Matter Who Ended the Affair? 2/25/2025 Why the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Talk About the Affair 2/12/2025 Q&A How Do We Create Safety When My Husband Had an Emotional Affair with a Coworker for Approximately 7 Years? 2/11/2025 How To Survive an Affair: How Much Should I Share with My Spouse? 1/29/2025 Is My Mate Truly Committed to Recovery? 1/22/2025 Destructive Patterns in Communication 1/15/2025 Q&A How Do I Find Closure When the Affair Partner Is a Close Family Friend? 1/14/2025 Q&A How Detailed Should the Disclosure Be for a 7-Year Emotional Affair With a Coworker? 1/08/2025 Q&A Do You Think I Should Reach Out to Affair Partner’s Wife and Disclose the Affair? 1/08/2025 Q&A How Important Is Attunement When Recovering from an Affair? 1/08/2025 Emotions Running Wild? Why You Lose Control After Infidelity 1/08/2025 Parenting Through Infidelity: A Father/Daughter Perspective 12/26/2024 Tips for Surviving the Holidays 12/18/2024 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Our First Wedding Anniversary After Discovery? 12/17/2024 Were They Thinking of Me? 12/04/2024 The Fantasyland of an Affair 11/27/2024 Mistakes Families Make After an Affair 11/13/2024 Was the Sex So Much Better in Their Affair? 11/06/2024 Q&A How Do We Navigate Outside Advice and Establish Boundaries to Protect Our Relationship? 10/30/2024 Q&A How Do I Support My Partner and Accept That I Can’t Control Their Recovery Journey? 10/30/2024 How Do We Silence Shame? 10/30/2024 Common Justifications for Why Women Cheat 10/16/2024 Are They Thinking About the Other Person? 10/09/2024 Is My Spouse a Narcissist? 10/02/2024 Q&A Am I a Fool for Being Vulnerable With My Mate? 10/01/2024 Q&A How Do I Feel Special Again After I Have Lost So Much Including Places That Were Just Ours? 9/18/2024 Q&A What Else Can I Do to Help Facilitate the Healing Process for My Betrayed Spouse and Myself? 9/18/2024 Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Get back the Dignity and Self-Worth I Took From Her With My Betrayal? 9/18/2024 A Discussion on Anger, Boundaries and Regrets After Infidelity 9/18/2024 Factors Affecting Women’s Sexuality with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC 9/11/2024 Reclaiming Dignity and Worth as a Woman with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC 8/28/2024 How to Find Answers 8/21/2024 Q&A Would Viewing Surveillance Footage of My Husband’s Affair Be Helpful? 8/14/2024 Pages123456789…next ›last »
