Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Healing or Blending Two Different Attachment Styles?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Wed, 05/28/2025 - 13:15

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I'm the betrayed, and am anxiously attached, and my husband is avoidant. We are in Married for Life now and seem to be having more heated discussions and flooding again and think it might be due to our different attachment styles. Or maybe we have some resistance while getting into the deeper self healing work?

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
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