All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Recovery Timeline Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity We Started Well, but... Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? How to Survive Infidelity 4747 Resources Type Title Posted How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/24/2023 Q&A Am I Wrong to Still Be in This Much Pain? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Can I Have Hope for My Mates Recovery with Those Odds? 5/19/2023 Q&A Why Do I Still Respond Physically like I Am Lying When I’m Telling the Truth? 5/19/2023 Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do We Navigate Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t Believe They Are Committing Infidelity? 5/19/2023 Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate? 5/19/2023 Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity 5/17/2023 What Is the Cost of Forgiving Infidelity? 5/10/2023 When to Save a Marriage After Infidelity 5/03/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle a New Betrayal Immediately after EMS Weekend? 5/02/2023 Q&A I’m Losing Compassion for My Mate. What Can I Do? 5/02/2023 Q&A Is It My Fault That They Did What They Did? 5/02/2023 Q&A How Do I Get past the Shame and Hurt? 5/02/2023 Q&A What Do I Do When My Spouse Is Making Me Choose between Her and My Faith? 5/02/2023 Q&A How Does One Find a Reputable and Affordable Polygraph Test Provider? 5/02/2023 Q&A Is My Mate’s Inability to Experience Emotions Due to Deep Trauma or Something More Problematic? 5/02/2023 Your Brain on Porn and Understanding the Sex Addict 4/26/2023 Q&A How Do You Recommend I Write My Closure Letter to the Affair Partner? 4/20/2023 Q&A Is It Necessary for Him to Be Proactive or Should I Be Happy He’s Doing What I Ask of Him? 4/12/2023 Q&A What If the Only Way I Can Heal Is without Horizontal Forgiveness? 4/12/2023 Q&A How Do We Handle Workplace Triggers in Recovery? 4/12/2023 Q&A Do You Think My Spouse Is Being Honest about Why They Stayed in the Affair for So Long? 4/12/2023 Q&A What Is the Best Way for Us to Utilize EMS Online since We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 4/12/2023 Q&A What Type of Affair Is This? 4/12/2023 Q&A How Do I Cope with My Own Issues of Needing to Feel Understood by My Husband as the Wayward Spouse? 4/12/2023 Q&A How Can Someone Who Has Become Such an Accomplished Liar Prove to the Betrayed Spouse That They Can Be Trusted? 4/12/2023 Q&A How Do You Discern If a Person Is Truly Remorseful and Changing When They Relapse into Blaming the Betrayed? 4/12/2023 Why People Cheat: Were They Predisposed to Cheat (Part 2) 4/12/2023 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 4/05/2023 Discovery: Part 4 - Goals for the Betrayed 3/29/2023 Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 3/22/2023 Q&A Is It Possible for the Individual to Find Healing and Purpose Even If the Marriage Doesn’t Survive? 3/17/2023 Q&A How Do We Handle a Paternity Test for a Child Born Years Ago? 3/17/2023 Q&A Does My Husband’s Sexual Performance Indicate a Serious Issue? 3/17/2023 Q&A Is My Lack of Emotion Normal or Am I Experiencing Something Much Worse? 3/17/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle My Spouse’s Siblings? 3/17/2023 Q&A Do We Have a Chance at Recovery If He Is Unable to Understand How Trauma Can Impact Me? 3/17/2023 Q&A Why Does He Tell Me I Am the Only Girl and Will Be Faithful When He Continues to See Other Women? 3/17/2023 Q&A Does My Mate Have a Sexual Addiction? 3/17/2023 Q&A How Do I Approach This Polygraph without Feeling like My Marriage Is on the Line? 3/17/2023 Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 3/15/2023 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 3/08/2023 Q&A How Do Social Engagement and Our Nervous Systems Work Together? 3/02/2023 Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate That I’m Not Talking to the Affair Partner? 3/02/2023 Q&A What Action Do You Recommend If My Mates Behavior Doesn’t Change? 3/02/2023 Healing from Infidelity: Going it alone 3/01/2023 Tony & Debbie Mentor Video 2/20/2023 Pages123456789…next ›last »
