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Video Factors Affecting Women’s Sexuality with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC 9/11/2024
Text What are the 5 simple and proven steps that will protect your marriage? 9/04/2024
Video Reclaiming Dignity and Worth as a Woman with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC 8/28/2024
Text How to Find Answers 8/21/2024
Video Q&A Are We at the End of the Road? 8/20/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Get Past or Heal From the Hurtful Things My Husband Said About Me to His Affair Partners? 8/20/2024
Video Q&A Would Viewing Surveillance Footage of My Husband’s Affair Be Helpful? 8/14/2024
Audio Rekindling Desire After An Affair 8/14/2024
Video The Process of Healing from Infidelity 8/07/2024
Video Q&A Do We Tell My Wife Parents About Her Behavior in Their House? 8/06/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Get over Feeling Disgust With My Partner Over Who He Chose to Have an Affair With? 8/06/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Truly Know if My Wayward Spouse Has Changed? 8/06/2024
Video Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse Refuses to Meet My Emotional Needs? 8/06/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Better Understand the Behaviors of My Wayward Spouse? 7/31/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Understand That Abuse Towards Men Is Equal to Abuse Towards Women? 7/31/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship? 7/31/2024
Text Is There Hope After Infidelity? 7/31/2024
Video Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery? 7/26/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Believe My Mate When They Say the Affair Is Over? 7/26/2024
Text Affair Partners: Eight Reasons Not to Confront Them 7/24/2024
Text Why This Hurts So Much... 7/17/2024
Video Q&A If We Move, Would We Be Running From Our Problems or Could It Help Our Recovery? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A As the Betrayed, Should I Focus on Avoiding the Affair Partner? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A Do I Have to Take a Polygraph? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Quit Using ‘Absolutes'? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A Should I Risk Provoking My Affair Partner if It Makes My Mate Feel Better? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A How Can We Reconnect if I Don’t Know What Happened? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much Control or Is the Wayward Spouse Being Unreasonable With a Lack of Boundaries? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A Do I Need to Allow the Wayward Spouse to Have More Time in the Recovery Process? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A What Should We Look for in a Therapist to Ensure They Can Provide the Specialized Support Needed for Infidelity Recovery? 7/10/2024
Video What Works in Healing Infidelity? 7/10/2024
Video Romanticism: Don't Believe the Lie 7/03/2024
Text Is Forgiveness Really Possible? 6/26/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Reconnect Intimately With My Betrayed Husband Now Knowing That He Is Dealing with His Own Temptations? 6/19/2024
Video Q&A Can You Please Address the Problem of Grieving Memories Like Childbirth Under the Shadow of an Affair? 6/19/2024
Video Q&A Is It Advisable to Leave This Church and Find Another Church Home to Help With Restoration and Recovery? 6/19/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Stop the Comparisons, Build Confidence, and Get Better at Sex Without Feeling Like I’m Trying to Be Like the Affair Partner? 6/19/2024
Text Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 6/19/2024
Video Q&A What Is the Best Way to Build Trust Around My Husband’s Actions and My Triggers? 6/13/2024
Video Q&A Is It Okay for the Unfaithful to Masturbate While I, the Betrayed, Can’t Be Intimate Right Now Because of Lack of Emotional Connection and a Lot of Hurt? 6/13/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done? 6/13/2024
Video Q&A Will I Ever Accept His Reasons for the Affairs? 6/13/2024
Video Really Hard Times Will Not Last 6/12/2024
Video 2 Things You Must Understand About the Disclosure Process 6/05/2024
Video Help With Incessant Triggers and Reminders 5/29/2024
Video Q&A Could You Give a Tangible Example of the Statement, ‘My Mate Is Never My Problem. My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me’? 5/28/2024
Video Betrayal Trauma: Tips for Talking with Your Spouse 5/22/2024
Video A Toxic Mix: Gaslighting and Infidelity 5/15/2024
Video Q&A How Is It Helpful to Label Someone for the Rest of Their Life When They Have Changed Directions? 5/14/2024
Video Q&A Does My Mate Still Have Feelings for His Affair Partner? 5/14/2024

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