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Text What Are Some Practical Steps to Take to Forgive My Spouse? 2/04/2025
Video Q&A Is It Possible to Have an Emotional Affair for Many Years and Not Be In Limerence? 2/04/2025
Video Q&A How Do We Protect Ourselves from an Aggressive and Persistent Affair Partner? 2/04/2025
Video Q&A Why Has My Spouse Refused to Cut Ties with His High School Sweetheart? 2/04/2025
Video Q&A Why Would the Wayward Spouse Continue to Lie About Plans with the Affair Partner? 2/04/2025
Video Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Raw Emotion from My Unfaithful Wife? 2/04/2025
Text How To Survive an Affair: How Much Should I Share with My Spouse? 1/29/2025
Video Is My Mate Truly Committed to Recovery? 1/22/2025
Video Destructive Patterns in Communication 1/15/2025
Video Q&A How Do I Find Closure When the Affair Partner Is a Close Family Friend? 1/14/2025
Video Q&A What Do You Do If the Wayward Spouse Shows No Remorse, Empathy, or Compassion? 1/14/2025
Video Q&A How Detailed Should the Disclosure Be for a 7-Year Emotional Affair With a Coworker? 1/08/2025
Video Q&A Do You Think I Should Reach Out to Affair Partner’s Wife and Disclose the Affair? 1/08/2025
Video Q&A Is the Connection I Have with My First Love (Not My Husband) Normal? 1/08/2025
Video Q&A How Important Is Attunement When Recovering from an Affair? 1/08/2025
Video Emotions Running Wild? Why You Lose Control After Infidelity 1/08/2025
Video Recovery Tips to Face the New Year 1/01/2025
Video Parenting Through Infidelity: A Father/Daughter Perspective 12/26/2024
Video Tips for Surviving the Holidays 12/18/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust When His Words Still Feel Scripted and Devoid of Genuine Empathy? 12/17/2024
Video Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Our First Wedding Anniversary After Discovery? 12/17/2024
Text How to Prevent Relapse After Infidelity 12/11/2024
Video Were They Thinking of Me? 12/04/2024
Video Q&A What If My Husband Doesn’t Want to Change? 12/03/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Feel Safe Knowing That the Worst Pain I Have Ever Felt Could Possibly Happen Again? 12/03/2024
Video The Fantasyland of an Affair 11/27/2024
Video Q&A Will She Ever Tell the Truth Without Being Backed Into a Corner? 11/26/2024
Video Stop Faking It: A Woman’s View on Sex After Infidelity 11/20/2024
Video Mistakes Families Make After an Affair 11/13/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Respond If I Don’t Believe My Spouse? 11/12/2024
Video Q&A Is My Spouse Trying to Punish Me for What I’ve Done? 11/12/2024
Video Was the Sex So Much Better in Their Affair? 11/06/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Issue With Disassociation? 11/05/2024
Video Q&A How Do We Navigate Outside Advice and Establish Boundaries to Protect Our Relationship? 10/30/2024
Video Q&A Could My Husband’s Actions Be Early Signs of Relapse? 10/30/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Support My Partner and Accept That I Can’t Control Their Recovery Journey? 10/30/2024
Video How Do We Silence Shame? 10/30/2024
Text Should I Get a Divorce? Am I Being Naive? 10/23/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Unfaithful Husband as He Seems to Be So Buried in Shame, Self-Loathing, and a Huge Sense of Worthlessness? 10/22/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Know if It Is Time to Let the Relationship Go? 10/22/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With My New Reality as a Betrayed Spouse? 10/22/2024
Text Common Justifications for Why Women Cheat 10/16/2024
Video Q&A My Betrayed Partner Says They’re Only in EMS Online So They Can Say ‘They Tried’. What Do I Do? 10/09/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Heal From the Shame I’m Feeling as a Result of My Affair? 10/09/2024
Video Are They Thinking About the Other Person? 10/09/2024
Video Is My Spouse a Narcissist? 10/02/2024
Video Q&A Is It Normal for Family to Feel Disappointed at Us for Staying With the Wayward Spouse? 10/01/2024
Video Q&A Why Does My Husband (Wayward) Not Want to Reconnect With Me (Betrayed) Physically? 10/01/2024
Video Q&A Am I a Fool for Being Vulnerable With My Mate? 10/01/2024
Video How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate 9/25/2024

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