All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected How do you respond to blackmail? Part II 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted We Started Well, but... Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The 2 Stages of Pain Recovery Timeline How to Survive Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Problem with Forgiveness 4894 Resources : All Categories Type Title Posted Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known 3/3/2021 The Inconvenient Truth About Love and Loss 2/25/2021 Hope for Healing Excerpt: 'Is My Life Out of Control?' 2/24/2021 Q&A What Is Attacking Classified As? 2/23/2021 Q&A How I Can Move Forward and Get past the Feeling That I Don’t Have the Full Story? 2/23/2021 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When He’s Still Holding on to Resentment Towards Me and I’m the Betrayed? 2/23/2021 When to Save a Marriage and Surviving Infidelity 2/17/2021 Q&A What More Can I Do to Become Safe for Her and Rebuild Our Relationship? 2/11/2021 Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling like My Husband Needs to Own up to the Affair to People in His Life? 2/11/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong to Demand Him to Quit His Job for My Own Healing? 2/11/2021 Discovery: Part 4 - Goals for the Betrayed 2/10/2021 Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 2/3/2021 Q&A When Will I Stop Asking Questions? 1/28/2021 Q&A Is It Normal for an Unfaithful Spouse Get Upset Whenever Asked to Talk about the Inappropriate Behavior? 1/28/2021 Q&A Am I Abnormal for Struggling with Healing? 1/28/2021 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Reclaiming Things Associated with the Affair? 1/28/2021 Q&A How Can I Remain Supportive and Loving While Also Protecting Myself? 1/28/2021 Q&A How Do I Know What Is Too Much Information? 1/28/2021 Q&A Can You Help Me Better Understand the Three Stages of Love? 1/28/2021 Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 1/27/2021 123456789101112131415161718192021222324252627282930313233343536373839404142434445464748495051525354555657585960616263646566676869707172737475767778798081828384858687888990919293949596979899100101102103104105106107108109110111112113114115116117118119120121122123124125126127128129130131132133134135136137138139140141142143144145146147148149150151152153154155156157158159160161162163164165166167168169170171172173174175176177178179180181182183184185186187188189190191192193194195196197198199200201202203204205206207208209210211212213214215216217218219220221222223224225226227228229230231232233234235236237238239240241242243244245> next