We have done all the work, courses, and attended the EMS Weekend. Our group dissolved immediately after. It has been all talk and loss of hope for any kind of marital relationship is very real. There is no physical affection, no expression of love, no touch. Intimacy has not happened for years. We cannot afford to divorce or live separately and cannot afford counsel. This is torture and day to day. How do others cope with no answers or resolutions? Stuck in what is a living Hell.