My unfaithful spouse has had multiple affairs. She tells me that she loves me. Her most recent affair involved sexting her affair partner. One aspect of it was her writing very sexual dreams/fantasies that she was fulfilling with her affair partner. She created the script of what each of them would do/say to each other in a particular scenario; having a picnic, for example. I cannot understand how anyone who truly loves someone can have a sexting affair of this nature. I cannot believe that she loves me and could do this to me at the same time. How can the unfaithful spouse love me and have an affair partner?