Why They Did It The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Recovery Timeline The 2 Stages of Pain Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? We Started Well, but... How to Survive Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How do you respond to blackmail? Part II The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 314 Resources : Why They Did It Type Title Posted Q&A Is It Common for the Wayward Spouse to Not Know 'Why' This Far in Recovery? 9/24/2020 Q&A What Attracts a Younger Man to an Older, Unattractive Woman? 9/24/2020 Q&A If Our Marriage Was So Wonderful, Why Did He Have an Affair? 8/27/2020 Q&A Is It Possible to Feel No Shame or Guilt? 8/27/2020 Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 8/26/2020 Q&A Could I Have Broken the Cycle Before My Spouse Strayed? 6/25/2020 Q&A What Do Same Sex Encounters Mean? 6/9/2020 Q&A Is There a Difference between Reason and Justification? 5/28/2020 Interview with an Expert: How Childhood Messages Can Cause Infidelity or Addiction 5/19/2020 Q&A What Kind of Affair Did My Husband Have and What Does It Mean for Recovery? 4/2/2020 Were They Thinking of Me? 4/1/2020 How to Heal from Infidelity: What If It Was Just an Emotional Affair? 3/24/2020 Q&A Is My Husband Normal, Sick, or Was He Temporarily Insane? 3/19/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse See's the Affair as My Fault? 3/10/2020 Q&A Is It Possible That She Believed Her Emotional Affair Was Not Infidelity? 3/3/2020 Q&A Does It Matter If Someone Forced His Hand on Their Breast or It His Did It on His Own? 2/20/2020 How Could You? Part VI - Dehumanization and Blame 2/5/2020 How Could You? Part V - The Secrecy Factor 1/29/2020 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 1/22/2020 How Could You? Part III: Moral Justification 1/15/2020 12345678910111213141516> next
