Why They Did It The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected We Started Well, but... How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The 2 Stages of Pain The Problem with Forgiveness Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How do you respond to blackmail? Part II 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Recovery Timeline Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 188 Resources : Why They Did It Type Title Posted Q&A Why Would They Not End an Affair Because of the Affair Partner's Feelings? 8/11/2017 Q&A Could Someone Really Think This? 8/2/2017 Q&A Why Did My Mate Act Differently with the Affair Partner? 8/2/2017 Were They Thinking of Me? 8/2/2017 Q&A Did My Choices Contribute to the Affair? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do We Cope with Differing Marriage Histories? 7/19/2017 Q&A Do We Revert Back to Our Old State Once the Threat Disappears? 7/12/2017 Q&A Is It Common for People to Rationalize Behaviors Other Than Intercourse as 'Okay'? 7/5/2017 Q&A Will My Fantasy Dreams End? 6/28/2017 Q&A Once a Person Cheats, Are They More Likely to Cheat Again? 6/21/2017 Q&A He Says I'm 50% Responsible for His Affair. Is That a Sign of Denial? 6/21/2017 Q&A Aren’t Betrayal and Love Incompatible? 6/21/2017 Q&A How Can I Heal from the Dishonor of His Sharing My Secrets with Her? 6/21/2017 Q&A Why Does He Say He Wants to Save the Marriage? 6/7/2017 Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 5/31/2017 Q&A What Does His Excuse for the Affairs Truly Mean? 5/24/2017 Q&A What Do You Do When Ambivalence and Limerance Don't Cover It? 5/24/2017 Q&A What Do You Mean By, "People with a Strong Moral Compass Are More Likely to Have an Affair"? 5/17/2017 Q&A Where Was My Husband's Self Respect during the Affair? 5/17/2017 Q&A If He Didn't Love His Affair Partner, Why Was He Planning Their Anniversary? 5/10/2017 12345678910> next
