Why They Did It The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The 2 Stages of Pain The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) We Started Well, but... How to Survive Infidelity Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Did My Spouse Cheat? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Recovery Timeline 321 Resources : Why They Did It Type Title Posted Q&A Why Do I Still Feel like Its My Fault She Had a Affair? Is This Normal for Betrayed Men? 1/14/2021 Q&A Is It Possible to Delude Oneself into Believing an Affair Wasn’t Emotional as a Means of Self Protection? 1/14/2021 Q&A Did He Really Not Consider Me or His Children? 1/14/2021 Ever wonder why men cheat and why women cheat? 12/30/2020 Q&A How Can I Know My Mate Didn't Just Prefer Sex With Someone Else? 12/17/2020 Tweeting Or Cheating? Social Media Affairs And What To Do 11/18/2020 Significant 10/30/2020 Q&A Was This Limerence or Something More? 10/5/2020 Q&A Is It Common for the Wayward Spouse to Not Know 'Why' This Far in Recovery? 9/24/2020 Q&A What Attracts a Younger Man to an Older, Unattractive Woman? 9/24/2020 Q&A If Our Marriage Was So Wonderful, Why Did He Have an Affair? 8/27/2020 Q&A Is It Possible to Feel No Shame or Guilt? 8/27/2020 Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 8/26/2020 Q&A Could I Have Broken the Cycle Before My Spouse Strayed? 6/25/2020 Q&A What Do Same Sex Encounters Mean? 6/9/2020 Q&A Is There a Difference between Reason and Justification? 5/28/2020 Interview with an Expert: How Childhood Messages Can Cause Infidelity or Addiction 5/19/2020 Q&A What Kind of Affair Did My Husband Have and What Does It Mean for Recovery? 4/2/2020 Were They Thinking of Me? 4/1/2020 How to Heal from Infidelity: What If It Was Just an Emotional Affair? 3/24/2020 1234567891011121314151617> next