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Why They Did It
The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty.
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Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1
The 2 Stages of Pain
The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing?
20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse
How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity
Rebuilding Trust After An Affair
The Problem with Forgiveness
Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling)
We Started Well, but...
How to Survive Infidelity
Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected
Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted
Why Did My Spouse Cheat?
How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons
Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors
How do you respond to blackmail? Part II
Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity
Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship?
Recovery Timeline
321 Resources : Why They Did It
Type Title Posted
Video Q&A Why Do I Still Feel like Its My Fault She Had a Affair? Is This Normal for Betrayed Men? 1/14/2021
Video Q&A Is It Possible to Delude Oneself into Believing an Affair Wasn’t Emotional as a Means of Self Protection? 1/14/2021
Video Q&A Did He Really Not Consider Me or His Children? 1/14/2021
Text Ever wonder why men cheat and why women cheat? 12/30/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Know My Mate Didn't Just Prefer Sex With Someone Else? 12/17/2020
Text Tweeting Or Cheating? Social Media Affairs And What To Do 11/18/2020
Text Significant 10/30/2020
Video Q&A Was This Limerence or Something More? 10/5/2020
Video Q&A Is It Common for the Wayward Spouse to Not Know 'Why' This Far in Recovery? 9/24/2020
Video Q&A What Attracts a Younger Man to an Older, Unattractive Woman? 9/24/2020
Video Q&A If Our Marriage Was So Wonderful, Why Did He Have an Affair? 8/27/2020
Video Q&A Is It Possible to Feel No Shame or Guilt? 8/27/2020
Text Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 8/26/2020
Video Q&A Could I Have Broken the Cycle Before My Spouse Strayed? 6/25/2020
Video Q&A What Do Same Sex Encounters Mean? 6/9/2020
Video Q&A Is There a Difference between Reason and Justification? 5/28/2020
Video Interview with an Expert: How Childhood Messages Can Cause Infidelity or Addiction 5/19/2020
Video Q&A What Kind of Affair Did My Husband Have and What Does It Mean for Recovery? 4/2/2020
Text Were They Thinking of Me? 4/1/2020
Video How to Heal from Infidelity: What If It Was Just an Emotional Affair? 3/24/2020
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