Why They Did It The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How to Survive Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? We Started Well, but... The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Recovery Timeline Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 128 Resources : Why They Did It Type Title Posted Q&A I was Unfaithful. Why do I Feel Betrayed? 9/28/2016 Q&A How do I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner? 9/28/2016 Decisions by the Unfaithful that Guarantee Moral Failure 9/28/2016 Q&A Why Can't My Mate Stay Away from the Affair Partner? 9/22/2016 Q&A Why Didn't Anyone Tell Me? 9/22/2016 Q&A What's the Relationship Between Trauma and Infidelity? 9/22/2016 Q&A How Can I Not Blame Myself for Their Affair? 9/14/2016 Q&A How Could I Do This to My Mate? 9/14/2016 Q&A Why Did They Do Something We Can't Do Together? 9/14/2016 Why People Cheat - Part III - Justifications of the Unfaithful 9/8/2016 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 9/1/2016 Q&A Does My Spouse Need Intensive Therapy? 8/3/2016 Q&A Can Marriages Survive Mismatched Personalities and Sexual Differences? 8/3/2016 Q&A Is a Deeper Understanding Necessary for Truly Forgiving? 8/3/2016 Q&A What are Reasonable Expectations for Knowing the 'Why'? 8/3/2016 Q&A How Did the Conversations Transition? 7/26/2016 Q&A Do Some Only Cheat While Drunk? 7/19/2016 Q&A How do We Figure Out the Justifications? 7/19/2016 Q&A Why did My Best Friend and Spouse Betray Me Together? 7/12/2016 Q&A Do We Talk About the Affair or Marriage? 7/12/2016 1234567> next
