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Handling Discovery
We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe.
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The 2 Stages of Pain
Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling)
We Started Well, but...
Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected
Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors
The Problem with Forgiveness
The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing?
20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse
Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1
How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity
Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship?
Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted
How to Survive Infidelity
Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity
How do you respond to blackmail? Part II
Rebuilding Trust After An Affair
Why Did My Spouse Cheat?
How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons
Recovery Timeline
501 Resources : Handling Discovery
Type Title Posted
Video Q&A How I Can Move Forward and Get past the Feeling That I Don’t Have the Full Story? 2/23/2021
Text Discovery: Part 4 - Goals for the Betrayed 2/10/2021
Text Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 2/3/2021
Video Q&A When Will I Stop Asking Questions? 1/28/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Know What Is Too Much Information? 1/28/2021
Text Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 1/27/2021
Text Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 1/20/2021
Text The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 12/8/2020
Video Q&A What Is the Census of Disclosing the Affair to the Affair Partner's Spouse? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Remember Details of the Affair That I Seem to have Repressed? 11/12/2020
Video Q&A Does This Program Offer Someone Who Can Sit with Us through the Disclosure Process? 10/29/2020
Video Q&A How Does One Determine What Not to Share with Their Spouse While Remaining Open and Honest? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A What Do I Do When I Don't Believe Something That He Consistently Says Is True? 10/5/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Get to the Truth? 10/5/2020
Video Q&A Is My Spouse Telling the Truth? 8/18/2020
Video Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask for Details? 8/18/2020
Video Q&A Is This Normal or Is There Something Wrong with Me? 7/30/2020
Text Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends? 7/29/2020
Text Denial and Recovery 7/1/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Reach Full Disclosure If My Wife Doesn’t Remember the Details? 6/25/2020
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