Handling Discovery We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe. Must Reads more less The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) We Started Well, but... Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Problem with Forgiveness The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How to Survive Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Recovery Timeline 501 Resources : Handling Discovery Type Title Posted Q&A How I Can Move Forward and Get past the Feeling That I Don’t Have the Full Story? 2/23/2021 Discovery: Part 4 - Goals for the Betrayed 2/10/2021 Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 2/3/2021 Q&A When Will I Stop Asking Questions? 1/28/2021 Q&A How Do I Know What Is Too Much Information? 1/28/2021 Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 1/27/2021 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 1/20/2021 The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 12/8/2020 Q&A What Is the Census of Disclosing the Affair to the Affair Partner's Spouse? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Remember Details of the Affair That I Seem to have Repressed? 11/12/2020 Q&A Does This Program Offer Someone Who Can Sit with Us through the Disclosure Process? 10/29/2020 Q&A How Does One Determine What Not to Share with Their Spouse While Remaining Open and Honest? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When I Don't Believe Something That He Consistently Says Is True? 10/5/2020 Q&A How Do We Get to the Truth? 10/5/2020 Q&A Is My Spouse Telling the Truth? 8/18/2020 Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask for Details? 8/18/2020 Q&A Is This Normal or Is There Something Wrong with Me? 7/30/2020 Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends? 7/29/2020 Denial and Recovery 7/1/2020 Q&A How Do We Reach Full Disclosure If My Wife Doesn’t Remember the Details? 6/25/2020 1234567891011121314151617181920212223242526> next
