Handling Discovery We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How do you respond to blackmail? Part II We Started Well, but... How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Problem with Forgiveness Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The 2 Stages of Pain Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Recovery Timeline The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How to Survive Infidelity 503 Resources : Handling Discovery Type Title Posted Q&A Should I Ask My Wife to Take Another Polygraph? 5/12/2021 Q&A How Do I Navigate Such Extreme Triggers from Discovery? 4/22/2021 Discovery: Why Do I Want to Know? 4/14/2021 Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair 4/7/2021 Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known 3/3/2021 Q&A How I Can Move Forward and Get past the Feeling That I Don’t Have the Full Story? 2/23/2021 Discovery: Part 4 - Goals for the Betrayed 2/10/2021 Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 2/3/2021 Q&A When Will I Stop Asking Questions? 1/28/2021 Q&A How Do I Know What Is Too Much Information? 1/28/2021 Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 1/27/2021 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 1/20/2021 The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 12/8/2020 Q&A What Is the Census of Disclosing the Affair to the Affair Partner's Spouse? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Remember Details of the Affair That I Seem to have Repressed? 11/12/2020 Q&A Does This Program Offer Someone Who Can Sit with Us through the Disclosure Process? 10/29/2020 Q&A How Does One Determine What Not to Share with Their Spouse While Remaining Open and Honest? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When I Don't Believe Something That He Consistently Says Is True? 10/5/2020 Q&A How Do We Get to the Truth? 10/5/2020 Q&A Is My Spouse Telling the Truth? 8/18/2020 1234567891011121314151617181920212223242526> next
