Q&A Do I Ask These Questions, Even if They May Cause Further Pain?
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Question
I am 18 months past the last and final disclosure of my husbands infidelity. My husband and I are doing well. We are deep in recovery. I have gotten and continue to get counselling. My husband has been doing his part in recovery. He is empathetic and has proven himself safe. I have had questions come up over memories I still get that nag at me. The answers would not change our trajectory. I am not sure why I feel I need the answers other than to fully know my history. Knowing the answers may just cause me hurt. I have been very careful in the questions I have asked from the beginning. I'm really not sure what to do with these questions... ask or let them be. Advice appreciated.
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