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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 1087 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Am I Asking Too Much in Regards to Relapse Prevention from My Husband? 8/06/2025 Q&A After a Polygraph Is Done to Confirm the Couple Is at Ground Zero, What Should Each Partner Expect from the Other Going Forward? 7/23/2025 Q&A How Do You Recommend We Handle Interactions with the Affair Partner? 7/23/2025 When Should You Stop Talking About the Affair? 7/23/2025 Q&A Are My Requests for Relapse Prevention Measures Unreasonable? 7/21/2025 Q&A How Do I Protect My Own Boundaries While Navigating This Complex Relationship? 7/09/2025 Will I Ever Feel Chosen? 7/02/2025 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting My Husband to Completely Separate from Anyone Complicit in His Affair? 6/18/2025 Movies & Infidelity: Why Hollywood Seems Obsessed with Sex & Secrets 6/18/2025 The Brain’s Hidden Wound of Betrayal Trauma 5/28/2025 Who I Should (and Shouldn't) Tell About the Affair 5/21/2025 Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Using Parental Control Apps to Create Safety and Rebuild Trust? 5/06/2025 Do’s & Don’ts of Emotional Flooding 4/30/2025 Q&A When Do I Throw in the Towel? 4/23/2025 Deciding to Stay: Practical Ways to Rebuild Safety 4/23/2025 The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 4/16/2025 Q&A When Will the Abusive Language and Name-Calling from the Betrayed Spouse Stop? 4/02/2025 Q&A What Do I Look for to Know the Affair Isn’t Still Happening? 4/02/2025 Wanting to Be Wanted 3/05/2025 Q&A How Do We Create Safety When My Husband Had an Emotional Affair with a Coworker for Approximately 7 Years? 2/11/2025 Q&A How Do We Protect Ourselves from an Aggressive and Persistent Affair Partner? 2/04/2025 How To Survive an Affair: How Much Should I Share with My Spouse? 1/29/2025 Is My Mate Truly Committed to Recovery? 1/22/2025 Q&A How Do I Find Closure When the Affair Partner Is a Close Family Friend? 1/14/2025 Emotions Running Wild? 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