Amongst his affairs, my husband had inappropriate interactions with teenagers - late high school, early college. There is an extra level of predatory behavior here that would have involved crossed boundaries even if he had been single. Do you have any thoughts on how to think about this sort of acting out? I don't know what I could even look for to consider him a safe person in the future. I'm not looking for a checklist of items, but I don't know how I would start to gauge whether there had been, or could be, real heart change on this front.