5 Things to Stop Doing After an Affair Healing from infidelity is not for the faint of heart. After the disclosure of an affair, both spouses find themselves traumatized, looking for answers, direction and hope. As society has evolved and infidelity has become its own epidemic, there seems to be a wealth of advice being thrown out across the globe. Finding experienced, compassionate survivors and healers has become a necessary component to those who are courageously trying to heal from infidelity or addiction. While lists upon lists of what to do can oftentimes be helpful, have you ever wondered what NOT to do when it comes to healing and restoration? Have you ever wondered what might delay your healing, complicate your recovery, and frustrate the entire process? You’re in luck: today Samuel shares five poignant mistakes couples and individuals make that can significantly delay healing in both spouses and partners who are trying so desperately to recover and move forward. Momentum is never gained easily in recovery, and while we may mean well, we can frequently hurt our partner or spouse, and find them experiencing the opposite of what we so passionately wanted them to feel. I hope you’ll take a few minutes today to listen to five significant things you can stop doing in your attempt to heal your relationship and even your own heart. EMS Online Registration Opens Soon! Let us guide you through the fog and confusion of infidelity so you can begin the process of healing. EMS Online, isn’t a one-size-fits-all program for couples. Over decades of experience exclusively in the field of infidelity, our methodology has been honed to better serve couples as they address the betrayal, reconnect as partners and restore their lives. “Affair Recovery’s EMS Online course literally saved our marriage from divorce. We had tried other professionals, which only led us to more pain in our marriage. It was a relief to find someone who understood our pain. It was comforting to know that others were feeling and thinking the same thoughts as us. We were not alone on this journey. Our marriage has been enriched by the valuable lessons we have learned through EMS Online.” — K., Alabama. Spots fill up quickly, so don’t wait to register! Sign up to be notified before registration opens for EMSO using the button below. Subscribe to Registration Notifications!