Do you feel like you're in a battle? You feel weary, run down, and defeated. Is it hard to open your eyes in the morning to face the day? Does the thought of getting up and having to go through the motions of another day feel like more than you can bear? Is the highlight of your day when you can finally bury yourself under the blankets, or a bottle of wine, or [fill in your own blank]?
I understand that well. But, I'd like to share with you today a story of an epic battle and a hard-won victory.
For...
Rewind to Valentine's Day 1999.
Envision a blanket spread with a mountaintop picnic, complete with Martinelli’s, fluted glasses, and chocolate-covered strawberries. The official “Will you marry me?” complete with an engagement ring. One of the most joyous days of my life.
The dreams and expectations for our future were as wide and big as the view from that mountaintop. I couldn’t wait to start that journey.
Fast Forward to Valentine's Weekend 2021.
I just finished...
Brave. Beautiful. Warrior. Scarcely words I would ever consider using to describe myself after my husband’s affair.
Fearful. Scarred. Defeated.
These words suited me best at this point in life.
Nonetheless, my teenage daughter bought me these three silver tiles. Word tiles. Brave. Beautiful. Warrior.
With five children I was...
In the weeks and months following the discovery of my husband’s affair, I most often would find myself going through the motions of daily life. Being a stay at home mom of five homeschooled children, I didn’t have a “break” from my kids. My break from daily life would often be found in the seclusion of my vehicle.
On one occasion I found myself driving aimlessly...
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