, 1 week 4 days ago

When devastation hits, we embark upon this journey of survival. We begin to wonder, “How do I survive this enormous amount of pain and trauma I’m in? How do I make it through to the other side?” Sometimes, we may even wonder, “How do I make it through today?” What I have found in my own healing from and surviving infidelity efforts is that I’m doing two things simultaneously: learning and unlearning.

As the amazing author Richard Rohr says, when we are in...

, 2 weeks 4 days ago

Registration for EMS Online Opens Soon. Don't Miss Out!

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, 1 month 2 days ago

EMS Weekend Is Back in Person!

Everyone has been asking and the time has come: EMS Weekend is finally back in person! Spots are selling out fast for this life-changing retreat, so make your in-person or virtual reservation today.

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Today, I'm going to discuss something that's at the cornerstone of recovery for couples: How to rebuild...

, 1 month 1 week ago

Join Us at the Virtual Hope Rising Conference on October 2!

Tickets are now available for our 4th annual Hope Rising Conference for betrayed spouses. Space is limited. Learn more and purchase tickets using the button below.

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I think anybody who's gone through infidelity comes to the point where they ask themselves:

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, 1 month 2 weeks ago

Not too long ago, someone pulled me aside and asked, “Seriously, how long is it going to be like this?” At our EMS Weekends in person, the conversations inevitably take a turn to these sorts of questions. Often, participants want to know:

  • “How long are we going to have to do this work?”
  • “Is it always going to be this...
, 1 month 3 weeks ago

Registration for EMS Online Opens Soon!

Spots fill up quickly, so you won't want to wait to register for our Emergency Marital Seminar Online. Better known as EMSO, this 13-week course has helped thousands of couples rebuild their relationships and restore their lives after infidelity.

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, 2 months 11 hours ago

Over the last decade in a half or so, I’ve been doing my own work and had the privilege of watching other people do their work as they heal from infidelity or addiction. During that time, I’ve come to the realization that, in many ways, our healing, our future and our personal restoration require the ownership of two things: our choices and our outcomes.

What Happens When We Own Our Choices

If I can’t own the choices that I’ve made, particularly as an unfaithful spouse, I’m not safe and I make myself a victim. If we...

, 2 months 1 week ago

Today, I want to talk to you about a major turning point that happens in all of our lives. This turning point is going to challenge some of you, and it's OK to be challenged in your affair recovery timeline. This turning point is the day when we hold ourselves accountable for our own healing. When I made the shift and began to hold myself accountable for my own recovery, it changed my life, it changed my healing and it changed my heart. At the core...

, 2 months 2 weeks ago

Have you ever been so frustrated because you couldn't get your mate to think, feel or act how you wanted them to? Have you ever hit that point in affair recovery where you so desperately wanted to get your loved one to do something, see something, and you just couldn't?

While recovering after an affair, we can become such control freaks when we try to get someone to experience something as we would. In these moments, our frustration can be off the charts.

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, 2 months 3 weeks ago

In life and in infidelity recovery, there are seasons. Whether you're recovering from infidelity pain as an individual or as a couple, some of these seasons are going to be incredibly challenging. I'm sorry to tell you, there's no way around them. But there is some good news: Seasons don't last forever. And while you will experience days of agony, you'll also experience good days;...

, 1 year 1 month ago

Samuel interviews author and therapist Eddie Capparucci about sex addiction.

, 1 year 1 month ago

Samuel discusses a necessary tool for those stuck in crisis.

, 1 year 1 month ago

Samuel his friends Hank and Aixa as they share their own story of healing from infidelity.

, 1 year 1 month ago

Samuel discusses suffering, belief systems, and how both partners can heal after disclosure.

, 1 year 1 month ago

Samuel interviews his special guest Lisa Arends to discuss betrayal, divorce, and how to move forward after marital devastation.

, 1 year 1 month ago

Samuel shares a critical mistake unfaithful spouses make which altogether endanger the marriage.

, 1 year 2 months ago

Samuel discusses why a marriage affected by infidelity or addiction can still be fulfilling and rewarding.

, 1 year 2 months ago

Samuel discusses long term vision for couples trying to heal from infidelity and addiction.

, 1 year 2 months ago

Samuel shares insight into a challenging part of the disclosure process.

, 1 year 2 months ago

Samuel discusses why many mistakes are made in the attempt to heal from infidelity or addiction.

, 1 year 2 months ago

Samuel interviews best selling author Thomas Gagliano and discusses self sabotage, infidelity and addiction.

, 1 year 2 months ago

Samuel tackles a tough but needed conversation about when to actually get help after infidelity.

, 1 year 2 months ago

Samuel discusses how to build bridges with both unfaithful and betrayed spouses.

, 1 year 2 months ago

Samuel discusses one of the worst mistakes he made in his own recovery early on.

, 1 year 2 months ago

Samuel interviews a betrayed male spouse who shares his journey of overcoming denial and comparison.

, 1 year 3 months ago

Samuel provides help for those who feel as though their betrayed spouse is testing them.

, 1 year 3 months ago

Samuel answers a question many betrayed spouse have asked themselves regarding the future of their relationship after infidelity is discovered.

, 1 year 3 months ago

Samuel shares insight into one of the biggest mistakes made when helping betrayed spouses.

, 1 year 3 months ago

When couples face ambivalence in either spouse it can seem like the end, when in fact, it can be positive for the relationship.

, 1 year 3 months ago

Samuel shares long term insight and hope for couples and individuals trying to heal.

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