Survivors Blog: Samuel
Samuel
Alumnus, Wayward. Providing hope, encouragement and infidelity-specific insight to anyone in recovery from betrayal.
Infidelity, Divorce, and the Courage to Keep Going: My Interview with Lisa Arends
Samuel interviews his special guest Lisa Arends to discuss betrayal, divorce, and how to move forward after marital devastation.
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Inconvenienced by the Betrayed's Pain: Help for the Unfaithful Spouse
Samuel shares a critical mistake unfaithful spouses make which altogether endanger the marriage.
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Understanding Why Marriage's Affected by Infidelity Are so Different: Hope for the Future
Samuel discusses why a marriage affected by infidelity or addiction can still be fulfilling and rewarding.
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Infidelity or Addiction Requires an Entirely New Playbook: Hope for Those in Crisis Due to Infidelity
Samuel discusses long term vision for couples trying to heal from infidelity and addiction.
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When the Betrayed Finds out What the Unfaithful Has Already Known: The Disclosure Process
Samuel shares insight into a challenging part of the disclosure process.
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Proper Affair Recovery Requires Addressing the Many Layers of Betrayal
Samuel discusses why many mistakes are made in the attempt to heal from infidelity or addiction.
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Interview with an Expert: How Childhood Messages Can Cause Infidelity or Addiction
Samuel interviews best selling author Thomas Gagliano and discusses self sabotage, infidelity and addiction.
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A Pivotal Mistake Couples Make after Disclosure of an Affair: When to Get Help?
Samuel tackles a tough but needed conversation about when to actually get help after infidelity.
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How to Avoid Disconnection after an Affair
Samuel discusses how to build bridges with both unfaithful and betrayed spouses.
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Minimizing Chaos & Hopelessness: Don't Make Your Own Affair Recovery Worse by Making This Mistake
Samuel discusses one of the worst mistakes he made in his own recovery early on.
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"I Was Living in Denial" - An Interview With a Betrayed Male Spouse
Samuel interviews a betrayed male spouse who shares his journey of overcoming denial and comparison.
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What If Your Betrayed Spouse Is Testing You? Tips on Surviving Infidelity after Disclosure
Samuel provides help for those who feel as though their betrayed spouse is testing them.
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Infidelity and Discovery: Does It Matter If the Unfaithful Spouse Came Clean on Their Own or Was Caught?
Samuel answers a question many betrayed spouse have asked themselves regarding the future of their relationship after infidelity is discovered.
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One of the Main Reasons Betrayed Spouses Can Feel Angry, Isolated, and Hopeless during Counseling
Samuel shares insight into one of the biggest mistakes made when helping betrayed spouses.
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Ambivalence Isn't Always the End of the Marriage: Help for Those in Crisis Due to Infidelity
When couples face ambivalence in either spouse it can seem like the end, when in fact, it can be positive for the relationship.
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Where Do We Go from Here? Hope for the Couple or Divorcee after Infidelity
Samuel shares long term insight and hope for couples and individuals trying to heal.
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Understanding Why Frustration Is so Problematic: Help for the Betrayed and Unfaithful Spouse
Samuel provides necessary support for couples who are trying to heal from infidelity.
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Can an Unfaithful or Betrayed Spouse Change after Infidelity?
Samuel answers a viewer question about whether or not a spouse can really change after infidelity.
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What Does the Betrayed Do When the Unfaithful Moves on without Them?
Samuel discusses what actions a betrayed spouse can take when the unfaithful refuses to end the affair.
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Surviving Infidelity: One of the Most Important Strategies for Couples or Individuals to Get Their Life Back
Samuel shares a powerful and effective tool for individuals on both sides of infidelity to heal.
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A Strategy on How to Diffuse from Reminders, Triggers, and Emotional Flooding after Infidelity
Samuel provides a strategy for those trying to manage triggers and intrusive thoughts after disclosure.
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Surviving Infidelity: Four Ways to Help a Betrayed Spouse See the Unfaithful Spouse Differently
Samuel shares important key principles to repair the lens a betrayed spouse sees their unfaithful partner through.
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How to Heal from Infidelity: What If It Was Just an Emotional Affair?
Samuel discusses emotional vs physical affairs and the impact emotional affairs have on betrayed spouses.
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Three Tips for Surviving Betrayal Trauma: The Aftermath of Infidelity and the Corona-virus
Samuel discusses how to navigate trauma in light of recent world events.
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Understanding Infidelity: How Long Will the Betrayed Spouse Be so Angry?
Samuel discusses anger, the betrayed spouse, and what the unfaithful can do to mitigate that anger.
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Samuel at Affair Recovery Discusses Isolation and the Unfaithful Spouse
Samuel gives direction to both the betrayed and unfaithful on how to deal with isolation after disclosure.
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Is the Unfaithful Spouse Just Sorry They Got Caught? Help for Those in Crisis Due to Infidelity
Samuel helps the betrayed spouse understand if an unfaithful spouse is genuinely sorry or just sorry they got caught.
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Surviving Infidelity: When Couples in Crisis Need a Translator
Samuel discusses a classic problem couples in crisis face when trying to heal from infidelity or addiction.
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