, 4 years 6 months ago
affair recovery-survivors blog-lynn-questions of a betrayed spouse-i believed forgiveness was the same as reconciliation-its not

I'm not the one who cheated,
why do I feel so ashamed?
Am I going crazy?
Why is this so hard for me?
Is healing actually possible?
Is forgiveness what I think it is?
What's normal when it comes to sex?

As I began to wrap my head around the betrayal in my marriage, I was bombarded with questions like...

, 5 years 10 months ago

Lynn shares five ways she found healing in community.

, 7 years 3 months ago

Betrayal is a pain like no other. 10 years ago, I didn't know that there was science behind the physical reality I was feeling each year as I passed the anniversary of beginning Affair Recovery. Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for woman dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

, 7 years 4 months ago

Lynn never planned on being the girl you thought of when you found out about a porn problem, but she is. And surprisingly, she's glad she can be that girl for those who are reeling from the knowledge of their spouse's use of porn. Here's what she would say to you if you just found out. Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for woman dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

, 7 years 5 months ago

Keep Walking: 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal was born from my personal journals and homework from participating in Affair Recovery courses and private therapy. 10 years ago I couldn't imagine this being an outcome of my pain but now I'm thankful that I'm able to provide hope to others in the darkness. 

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

, 7 years 11 months ago

In today's video, Lynn shares an experience her husband and she had taking a walk in the park that metaphorically represented their similar journey in recovery from infidelity.

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

, 8 years 5 days ago

In today's video, Lynn responds to Samuel's vlog Finding Gratitude as an Unfaithful and offers her perspective on finding gratitude as a betrayed.

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

, 8 years 1 month ago

After discovering my husband's betrayal, he worked hard and did specific things that helped me heal and move forward in our recovery from infidelity.

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

, 8 years 2 months ago

Lynn discusses cleaning up the blow ups & learning to find hope in the process.

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

, 8 years 2 months ago

I lost the marriage I thought I had. I lost the fairy tale I believed in. I lost hope. Lynn offers thoughts on grieving while walking through betrayal.

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

, 8 years 2 months ago

Are you dreading Christmas this year? Lynn shares how she deals with the disappointment and the expectations of the holidays.

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

, 8 years 3 months ago

Many times we tell ourselves lies to convince ourselves that we're fine and that we can handle a problem. But as Rick often says, 'If you can't accept where you're at, you'll never get to where you want to go'.

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

, 8 years 3 months ago

Lynn discusses her overwhelming desire to control once the pain & chaos of infidelity set in.

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

, 8 years 4 months ago

Hope is out there, but you have to be looking in the right direction. These are the first four places where I saw hope.

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

, 8 years 4 months ago

Thanks to Paula Rinehart's book, Strong Women Soft Hearts, I learned what forgiveness was and what it wasn't.

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

, 8 years 5 months ago

How I discovered my own vulnerability along with some of the most important advice I can offer to betrayed spouses.

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

When Godly People do Ungodly Things: Arming Yourself in the Age of Seduction by Beth Moore

, 8 years 5 months ago

Joining a small group meant letting people in on our secret and allowing them to see our mess, but the benefits far outweigh the risks.

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

, 8 years 6 months ago

Today I share both my healthy and unhealthy reasons for staying and how they saw me through to the other side.

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

, 8 years 6 months ago

One of the lies the betrayed spouse believes is that they will always feel the way they do at discovery. Today, I share the story of two trips and how feelings can change.

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

, 8 years 7 months ago

After discovering my husband's infidelity, sadness and loneliness were safe emotions, but they morphed into something entirely different under the weight of denial.

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.