The Anger Scared Me | Affair Recovery

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Alumna, Grateful Wayward. Strong believer in small group recovery and the power of sharing our faith, experience, strength, and hope in community. Miracles happen.

Alumnus, betrayed. Be a voice of encouragement for those in pain and navigating emotional trauma. The journey to healing can seem impossible, but don’t ever give up as there is a light at the end of that tunnel. Please show yourself compassion, grace, and love.

Tara (New!)

Alumna, betrayed. Healing from loss of betrayal, marriage, spouse, and the life I thought I had…to discover hope for new beginnings. As a Grief Recovery Specialist, I am passionate about helping others find hope again.

Karen

Alumna, betrayed. After enduring Betrayal Trauma, Karen developed a passion for assisting other betrayed partners in their journey to grieve, find hope, and rebuild their lives following such a life-shattering event.

Candace

Alumna. Proud to walk with you through the drama and trauma caused by infidelity.

Rachel

Alumna, Betrayed. A compassionate traveling companion who walks alongside those seeking hope, health, and harmony through betrayal trauma.

Kristen

Alumna. Wayward. Using the experience and learnings from my own healing to inspire and encourage others on their journey post-infidelity.

Melissa

Wayward codependent. Empowering others to find hope and healing in their own recovery and restoration journey. Passionate about the ripple effects of healing from infidelity on the younger generations.

Songs For the Soul

Alumni. Rodney and Angela. Channeling hope and healing through music after experiencing God's healing power from the tsunami of infidelity.

Michaela

Alumna, navigating recovery from both sides of infidelity. Bringing hope to those enduring their darkest moments.

Stephanie

Alumna. Betrayed. Seeking to inspire hope in those recovering from the devastating effects of infidelity or addiction.

Mickey

Alumnus. Wayward. Encouraging those walking the road of addiction recovery by sharing his own journey of healing and restoration.

Jen

Alumna, Betrayed. Seeking God's grace to find meaning and purpose in the pain. Hoping to share my life raft with others drowning in the despair of infidelity.

Samuel

Alumnus, Wayward. Providing hope, encouragement and infidelity-specific insight to anyone in recovery from betrayal.

Grace

Alumna. Betrayed. Sharing her testimony of God's miraculous healing from betrayal trauma to inspire hope in others.

Nicole

Alumna. Wayward. Sharing hope with others struggling from the shame and destruction of their bad choices. Restoring the broken pieces by the healing power of God’s unfailing love.

Vikki

Alumna. Wayward. Striving to become a woman of integrity. Together, we can find light in the darkness of infidelity.

Christine

Alumna. Betrayed. Striving to recover and thrive after betrayal. I believe gratitude is the antidote to grief. If I can help you in your healing, therein lies my own.

Jessica

Alumna. Member, EMS Weekend Retreat Team. Hope and healing are possible for anyone willing to work through the pain.

Chase

Alumnus. Betrayed. Trying to find his way back.

Elizabeth

Alumna. Wayward. A broken and undeserving mess who is learning what real love looks like.

Lisa

Alumna. Betrayed. Determined to be positive as I navigate the quagmire of recovery.

Lynn

Alumna. Betrayed. A soul restored. Encouraging others to keep walking because there is a way through. Author of Keep Walking: 40 Days to Hope and Freedom After Betrayal

Amy

Alumna. Betrayed. Grateful for God's love and grace. Recognizing that with God as my priority, I will be okay no matter what.

Erick

Alumnus. Betrayed. No matter how long it takes or how hard it is, my wife is always worth it!

Julia

Alumna. Betrayed. Learning to love recklessly while I cross the monkey bars of recovery.
"You have to let go at some point in order to move forward." - C.S. Lewis

Reese

Alumna. Betrayed. Walking in obedience to God's direction and experiencing a richer life and Renewed marriage.

Steve

Alumnus. Wayward. Living life differently, enjoying my wife and family, and grateful for God’s love.

Carlie

Alumna. Betrayed. Experiencing God's love after divorce. Celebrating the healing of myself and my identity.

Dana

Alumna. Betrayed. Continuing to fight for my marriage and my children.

Jack

Alumnus. Wayward. Living proof that seeking truth offers both incredible pain and amazing freedom.

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brilliant clip

Submitted by Joanna (not verified) on Wed, 08/19/2015 - 14:09

i am also very angry and some of the things i do are very unhealthy in trying to shove down the anger

shoving down anger

Submitted by Lynn on Thu, 08/20/2015 - 10:10

Anger is a normal part of the journey. Shoving it in seemed like a good option but it only made a bigger mess. Going for a walk helped me. So did punching a pillow! Spilling out thoughts in a journal is another option. Praying you find some healthy ways to diffuse your anger.

anger

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 08/21/2015 - 10:48

thank you Lynn
you are lucky your husband wanted to try to work towards recovery
thank you for your blog post tho it really really helped me to watch it

Submitted by Lynn on Thu, 09/03/2015 - 10:31

Yes, I am grateful that my husband and I did the work together. I"m so glad this blog was helpful for you!

Rage

Submitted by Anna Lisa (not verified) on Thu, 08/20/2015 - 22:38

Lynn,

You give me hope that one day I will be as happy as you are today. I hope I've made the right choice to stay in my marriage after 28 years and rebuild. I've been dealing with anger and sadness for 3 months and I wish those raw feelings away everyday. I've learned coping techniques but they're a part of me now.

Submitted by Lynn on Thu, 09/03/2015 - 10:30

Those emotions are no joke! And totally understandable given the circumstances of your life. I think the best thing to do is FEEL them. Journalling helped me and saved the people around me from the backlash of my emotions. Praying for you

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