“I Don’t Even Know Who I Am Anymore!” Help for Those in Affair Recovery Crisis

"I don't even know who I am anymore" is one of the most common statements shared in therapeutic sessions after a spouse endeavors to heal from infidelity. They feel like they're losing themselves, or worse, have already lost themselves giving way to bouts of almost uncontrollable rage, anger and life changing trauma. The truth is, they just may be losing a version of themselves that needs to be grieved, buried and moved on from. Today Samuel shares a gritty yet compassionate discussion on how to find hope and healing again after infidelity, while discovering a new version of ourselves that just may be one of the biggest surprises of our lives.

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I just wanted to thank you for your work. You have a unique way of balancing the gravity of the situation when a marriage faces infidelity with a hopefulness about the future. Your gentle but assertive approach to all of these topics will continue to be appreciated by so many people. I wish you the very best and just wanted to say thank you.

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