Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Power of Small Groups Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How to Survive Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 3974 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Get These Images Out of My Head? 10/22/2025 Q&A How Do We Handle a Vindictive Affair Partner? 10/22/2025 Q&A How Can the Wayward Stay Safe around the Betrayed’s Pain? 10/22/2025 Q&A Can You Provide Some Words of Encouragement? 10/22/2025 Q&A How Do We Handle Intense Intrusive Thoughts When Working High-Demand Jobs? 10/22/2025 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Grief and Sadness? 10/02/2025 Q&A How Can I Move Towards Vulnerability with Someone Capable of This? 10/02/2025 Q&A What Can I Do to Help Myself, and Us, At the One Year Mark? 10/02/2025 Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Partner to Feel Rage? 10/02/2025 Q&A What Exactly Do I Grieve and Do I Have to Grieve Before I Can Forgive? 10/02/2025 Q&A Why Would Someone Put Such a Cherished Relationship at Risk with an Affair? 10/02/2025 Q&A Have Men Been Able to Forgive and Have a Healthy Relationship After Extreme Infidelity? 10/02/2025 Q&A How Could He So Easily Forget the Pain He Caused? 10/02/2025 Q&A What Advice Would You Give to a Couple Who Feels Safe Now and for the Future, but Is Struggling with ‘Getting Right’ with past Infidelities and Traumas? 10/02/2025 Q&A Is There Anything the Wayward Spouse Can Say or Do That Has Been Effective in Helping the Betrayed Spouse Feel Better? 10/02/2025 Q&A How Do I Move Forward from Here? 9/10/2025 Q&A Why Should I Continue in This Relationship? 9/10/2025 Q&A How Will I Ever Feel Safe with Someone Who Has No Control over Themselves? 8/28/2025 Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Need Time to Mourn the Loss of the Affair Partner? 8/28/2025 Q&A How Do I Heal from What Happened? 8/28/2025 Q&A Could You Provide Suggestion on How to Predict & Repair Intrusive Thoughts When We Are Engaging in Sex? 8/28/2025 Q&A What Makes Someone Vulnerable to a Previous Romantic Partner? 8/21/2025 Q&A How Do We Address and Heal from My Husband’s past Betrayal in Light of My Recent Infidelity? 8/06/2025 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Betrayed Spouse That I Finally ‘Get It’? 8/06/2025 Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Spouse Love Me and Have an Affair Partner? 8/06/2025 Q&A Am I Asking Too Much in Regards to Relapse Prevention from My Husband? 8/06/2025 Q&A Would You Ever Consider Hosting a ‘Trauma Therapy Specific’ Weekend Intensive? 8/06/2025 Q&A How Is Proper Closure with the Affair Partner Done in This Situation? 7/23/2025 Q&A How Do Others Cope with No Answers or Resolutions? 7/23/2025 Q&A After a Polygraph Is Done to Confirm the Couple Is at Ground Zero, What Should Each Partner Expect from the Other Going Forward? 7/23/2025 Q&A How Do You Recommend We Handle Interactions with the Affair Partner? 7/23/2025 Q&A How Does He Not Have Deep Residual Feelings for the Affair Partner? 7/23/2025 Q&A How Do We Dismantle the Wall Hindering My Wayward Spouse from Expressing Sorrow, Remorse, and Empathy? 7/23/2025 Q&A I Want My Mate to Apologize. Is It Okay to Tell Him the Things He Has Done That Have Hurt Me? 7/21/2025 Q&A Are My Requests for Relapse Prevention Measures Unreasonable? 7/21/2025 Q&A How Do I Protect My Own Boundaries While Navigating This Complex Relationship? 7/09/2025 Q&A Can You Please Give Some Direction on the Various Courses and the Best Way to Go Through Them? 7/02/2025 Q&A What Would Put Me Back Into Integrity as a Betrayed Spouse? 7/02/2025 Q&A Why Is My Husband Blaming Me for His Affair? 7/02/2025 Q&A How Do I Talk About My Stupidity in a Redemptive Way, While I’m Still Struggling Through My Heart Change? 7/02/2025 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting My Husband to Completely Separate from Anyone Complicit in His Affair? 6/18/2025 Q&A How Can I Forgive the Affair Partner When She Is Still Impacting My Life So Negatively? 6/18/2025 Q&A How Do I Respond If I Feel the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Be with Me? 6/18/2025 Q&A How Can I Get Past This Feeling of Never Being Her Choice When She Had Freedom to Choose? 6/12/2025 Q&A Do I Take Action Against the Affair Partner or Just Letting It Go? 6/12/2025 Q&A How Do I Stop Hating the Affair Partner? 5/28/2025 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Healing or Blending Two Different Attachment Styles? 5/28/2025 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Race of the Affair Partner Being a Trigger? 5/28/2025 Q&A Is There Any Hope That My Husband Will Change? 5/28/2025 Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Such Hatred Towards His Affair Partner? 5/14/2025 Pages123456789…next ›last »
