For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors We Started Well, but... Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Recovery Timeline Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? 491 Resources : For The Hurt Spouse Type Title Posted Why Did They Cheat? Part 1:The Role of Oxytocin 11/14/2018 Why Does My Unfaithful Spouse Say I'm Too Controlling? 11/13/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Understand What They've Done? 11/7/2018 Q&A Am I Shaming My Husband When I Bring up His past Behaviors? 11/7/2018 Chutes and Ladders 11/2/2018 Q&A How Do We Heal When We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 11/1/2018 Q&A Was My Mate Committed to Me? 11/1/2018 Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful 10/31/2018 Pleasing Versus Loving 10/24/2018 Q&A Is It Useful to Think about What Could've Happened? 10/23/2018 Q&A Why Has My Mate Broken My Trust Again? 10/23/2018 Q&A Should We Continue with EMSO If My Mate Won't Break Contact With the Affair Partner? 10/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Expect from a Recovering Wayward Wife? 10/17/2018 Q&A Should I Be Open to Reconciliation? 10/10/2018 Q&A Can I Ever Expect My Mate's Attraction Towards the Affair Partner to End? 10/10/2018 Q&A What Can I Do for My Ambivalent Spouse? 10/10/2018 Wanting to Be Wanted 10/10/2018 How do you deal with anger after infidelity? 10/3/2018 Q&A I Feel Stuck in My Mates Recovery. What Should I Do? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Boundaries Can We Set around This Relationship? 9/26/2018 12345678910111213141516171819202122232425> next
