Strengthening Marriage Nurture your marriage with positive steps towards maintaining a healthy recovery. Use these articles to find security on your pathway to wholeness. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Could You? 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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity The Power of Small Groups 354 Resources Type Title Posted Do’s & Don’ts of Emotional Flooding 4/30/2025 Q&A Do You Suggest He Focus On Healing Himself First, Then Our Marriage? 4/09/2025 The Myth of Greener Grass in Marriage 4/09/2025 Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 4/02/2025 Wanting to Be Wanted 3/05/2025 Am I Who They Want? 2/25/2025 Is My Mate Truly Committed to Recovery? 1/22/2025 Destructive Patterns in Communication 1/15/2025 Stop Faking It: A Woman’s View on Sex After Infidelity 11/20/2024 Factors Affecting Women’s Sexuality with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC 9/11/2024 Rekindling Desire After An Affair 8/14/2024 Is There Hope After Infidelity? 7/31/2024 Romanticism: Don't Believe the Lie 7/03/2024 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 6/19/2024 Q&A Every Time I Start to Feel Better, My Unfaithful Spouse Stops Putting in as Much Effort. How Can I Feel Safe When This Happens? 4/25/2024 Overcoming the Barriers to Recommitment 4/03/2024 Q&A What Does Making Restitution Look Like in a Marriage after an Affair? 1/30/2024 Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy 11/28/2023 Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 11/01/2023 Relapse: Why Can't You Stop? 8/23/2023 My Spouse Had an Affair: What Should I Do Now? 8/09/2023 Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 8/02/2023 Denial and Recovery After an Affair 7/05/2023 Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate? 5/19/2023 When to Save a Marriage After Infidelity 5/03/2023 Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel? 1/11/2023 Pleasing Versus Loving 11/29/2022 The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 10/05/2022 Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation 9/07/2022 What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 7/13/2022 Q&A How Do We Give This a Shot If We Don’t Reengage on Some Level? 6/14/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 5/25/2022 Q&A Can You Help Us Understand Our Love Language Differences? 5/24/2022 Q&A How Do You Make Your Partner Feel Understood, Trusted, like They Matter, and That It’s Ok to Make Mistakes, Without Enabling Bad Behavior? 5/24/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Embracing Intimacy After Infidelity Part 2: The Art of Cherishing 9/15/2021 Embracing Intimacy After Infidelity Part 1: How to Reengage 9/08/2021 Mastering Marriage Part 2: Practicing the Process of Marriage and Recovery 8/25/2021 Mastering Marriage Part 1: Interpreting Plateaus in Marriage and Recovery 8/18/2021 Q&A How Can We Want a Better Marriage in the Future When I Didn't Think It Was Bad in the First Place? 7/22/2021 Mental Health and Parenting: How to Support Yourself and Your Kids 6/02/2021 How Couples Can Promote Good Mental Health During and After the COVID-19 Pandemic 5/26/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with His Inability to Talk about Our Marriage? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do We Safely and Respectfully Navigate Reconciliation, and Re-Integration to the Home, While Separated? 3/22/2021 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Help Him Work through His Struggles - Which in Turn Will Help Our Marriage? 3/18/2021 Q&A Can You Help Me Better Understand the Three Stages of Love? 1/28/2021 The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy 12/02/2020 Q&A What Does Moving Forward a Year Later Look Like? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Can We Deal with Resentments and Move Forward? 10/05/2020 Q&A How Do I Reengage and Begin Moving Forward Again? 8/18/2020 Pages12345678next ›last »