For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Recovery Timeline We Started Well, but... Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How to Survive Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness The 2 Stages of Pain Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? 236 Resources : For the Unfaithful Spouse Type Title Posted How I Found My Way Back: An Interview with an Unfaithful Female Spouse 12/12/2019 When Making the Right Decision Still Hurts: Healing from the Devastation of Infidelity 12/10/2019 Why We Run from the Consequences of Infidelity and Addiction 12/5/2019 Q&A Is My Childhood Trauma Influencing My Life? 12/5/2019 Q&A How Can I Gain a Better Perspective on What I've Done? 12/5/2019 Who Am I, Now, after Infidelity? 12/3/2019 What Battle Are You Facing in Your Own Healing? 11/26/2019 One of the Biggest Communication Disasters an Unfaithful Spouse Can Commit 11/21/2019 How Does the Unfaithful Spouse Deal with Unforgiveness and Resentment toward the Betrayed? 11/19/2019 If You Want to Heal from Infidelity You Have to Be Willing to Confront Yourself 11/14/2019 Q&A Why Does My Behavior Reflect That I've Learned Nothing? 11/13/2019 Q&A Is It Possible to Reach Ground Zero If My Spouse Doesn’t Believe That I’ve Told Him Everything? 11/13/2019 The Unfaithful Spouse and Isolation 11/12/2019 How the Unfaithful Spouse Rediscovers Compassion 11/7/2019 How Can the Unfaithful Give Themselves Permission to Live Again? 11/5/2019 A Tool to Help the Unfaithful Spouse Fight off Shame and Self Hatred 10/24/2019 Key Ingredients to the Life of an Unfaithful Spouse 10/22/2019 Ways to Make a Betrayed Spouse Feel Safe 10/17/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal, Recover, and Prevent Relapse? 10/16/2019 Q&A Will I Ever Fully Understand My Mate's Pain? 10/16/2019 123456789101112> next