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Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 428 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is My Spouse Trying to Punish Me for What I’ve Done? 11/12/2024 Q&A How Do I Handle My Issue With Disassociation? 11/05/2024 How Do We Silence Shame? 10/30/2024 Are They Thinking About the Other Person? 10/09/2024 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate 9/25/2024 Q&A How Can I Get These Images Out of My Mind and Get back to Just Being With My Husband? 9/18/2024 Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Get back the Dignity and Self-Worth I Took From Her With My Betrayal? 9/18/2024 Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship? 7/31/2024 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery? 7/26/2024 Q&A As the Betrayed, Should I Focus on Avoiding the Affair Partner? 7/10/2024 Q&A What Should We Look for in a Therapist to Ensure They Can Provide the Specialized Support Needed for Infidelity Recovery? 7/10/2024 Q&A How Do I Stop the Comparisons, Build Confidence, and Get Better at Sex Without Feeling Like I’m Trying to Be Like the Affair Partner? 6/19/2024 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Build Trust Around My Husband’s Actions and My Triggers? 6/13/2024 Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done? 6/13/2024 Help With Incessant Triggers and Reminders 5/29/2024 Betrayal Trauma: Tips for Talking with Your Spouse 5/22/2024 A Toxic Mix: Gaslighting and Infidelity 5/15/2024 Signs There Could Be Abusive Behaviors in Your Relationship 5/08/2024 Q&A How Do I Address Her Readiness to Engage With Someone So Despicable Versus Her Resistance to Reconnect Intimately With Me? 5/07/2024 Creating Healing Spaces 5/01/2024 Q&A How Do I Cope With the Resurgence of Past Traumas Triggered by Such Betrayal? 4/25/2024 Q&A How Do You Stop Thinking About and Forgive The Affair Partner? 4/25/2024 Q&A Where Can I Find Help for My Mate’s Cognitive Issues Surrounding the Lessons and My Grief? 4/25/2024 Q&A How Can We Overcome Arousal Issues Resulting From Disclosure? 4/03/2024 The Truth About Lying 3/27/2024 Psychological Abuse Within Infidelity 3/20/2024 Q&A How Does Betrayal Affect Pregnancy and the Well-Being of the Unborn Child? 3/19/2024 Q&A How Do I Get the Affair Partners Out of My Head? 3/19/2024 Regulating Our Stress Response During Recovery 3/13/2024 Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Feel Safe When She Is Triggered? 2/28/2024 Dealing with Reminders 2/28/2024 Manifestation of Shame Part 1: The Unfaithful 2/21/2024 Betrayal Trauma: How We Get Stuck in Trauma Bonds 2/07/2024 Q&A How Do I Get over the Fact He Wanted to Walk Out on Us? 1/30/2024 What Does Doing the Work of Infidelity Recovery Mean for the Unfaithful - Infidelity Recovery 1/24/2024 Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning? 11/28/2023 Community for Healing from Infidelity – Affair Recovery 11/22/2023 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Understand the Devastation I’m Experiencing Because of Them Giving Me An STD? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Do I Commit to This Marriage When I Promised Myself I’d Never Stay with Someone Who Cheated On Me? 10/23/2023 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 10/04/2023 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Profound Pain Caused by My Unfaithful Spouse Treating Me with Disdain for So Long? 9/29/2023 Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders 9/20/2023 Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There? 6/29/2023 Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work? 6/16/2023 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 5/31/2023 Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate? 5/19/2023 Q&A Is My Mate’s Inability to Experience Emotions Due to Deep Trauma or Something More Problematic? 5/02/2023 Q&A Is My Lack of Emotion Normal or Am I Experiencing Something Much Worse? 3/17/2023 Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Acknowledge That Being in an Affair for So Long Has Affected the Way They See Themselves, Me, and Our Relationship Sexually? 2/17/2023 Q&A Can You Help Us to Understand in What Ways a Long-Term Affair with a Toxic Affair Partner Effect the Recovery Process? 12/06/2022 Pages123456789next ›last »
