Handling Discovery

We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe.

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Video icon Q&A How Do I Avoid Flooding during Hard Conversations?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Reach Full Disclosure with Pornography?
Video icon Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about My Behavior?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A Should I Give My Mate Information They Specifically Asked Me Not to Share?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Believe?
Video icon Q&A Am I Being Overly Sensitive about My Mate's Views towards the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong for Asking My Husband to Be Transparent?
Video icon Q&A Is There Any Hope for Truth?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Overcome the Rage Resulting from the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What Happened?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward If My Mate Won't Admit What Happened?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know What to Believe?
Video icon Q&A Are Polygraph's Valid and Should My Husband Take One?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't My Husband Face That This Was an Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible He Is Being Honest?
Video icon Q&A Should We Disclose the AP's Personal Information to Our Mate?
Video icon Q&A Is It Safe to Believe My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Show Empathy without Getting Defensive?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get Complete Disclosure on How Deep This Sex Addiction Goes?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Recovery Timeline?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Discern What Is True in All of This?
Video icon Q&A Is It Safe to Stay with Someone Who Hasn't Fully Disclosed the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Tell the Truth?
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Video icon Q&A How Do I Enforce Boundaries While Encouraging Transparency?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Heal Given This Reality?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Forgive the Unforgivable?
Video icon Q&A How to We Share Our Story with Our Children?
Video icon Q&A Why Is the Timeline of the Affair so Important to Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Get to a Safe Place with Details I Can't Remember?
Video icon Q&A Why Does My Mate Say He Can't Remember Details of the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is His Explanation Probable?
Video icon Q&A Should I Disclose to the Affair Partner's Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Apply Boundaries and Reconcile?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Make Disclosure Safe?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Get to Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate with Discovery?
Video icon Q&A How Important Is It to Deal with All Betrayals Whether before or after Marriage?
Video icon Q&A When Should a Betrayed Spouse Stop Pushing for Answers to Questions?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle New Details That I Remember?
Video icon Q&A How Should the Betrayed Handle Multiple Discovery Days?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Prepare for My Mates Polygraph Results?
Video icon Q&A Should I Insist or Let It Go?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Refuses Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Mate Holding Back Details?
Video icon Q&A Should We Disclose to the Affair Partner's Spouse?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do When the Betrayed Spouse Doesn’t Believe Your Story?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Erase the Intrusive Thoughts?
Video icon Q&A Should I Insist That My Husband Disclose the Affair Partner's Identity?