Q&A How Do I Handle New Details That I Remember?

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I would like to know how to handle the new details that come to my mind every day. I’m the unfaithful wife and for almost 5 weeks, I’ve kept drip feeding my husband the information. Part due to my cowardice, part due to the fact that I really think that’s it. How can I manage this situation? It clearly kills my husband’s heart and power to ever be able to move on. He said that every time I come with new details or “unimportant” information, I keep resetting him and that he can’t know if he can do it for much longer...and I believe him, it’s hard enough for me to say “that’s it”, and then next day remember something not confessed.



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