Q&A What Do You Do When the Betrayed Spouse Doesn’t Believe Your Story?

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We are almost 11 months from D-Day and have taken EMSO. Due to our schedules we’ve not been able to continue with MFL. We’ve also seen 2 counselors and my husband says he won’t go back because his concerns have not been addressed. My husband knows what I’ve done, but the story doesn’t make sense to him and he believes there’s more. He says he cannot move forward until he knows details. My story is not the norm and I totally understand it doesn’t make sense, however, he knows the worst of what I’ve done and any additional info will not change the impact of the story. We are in gridlock and cannot find a way forward. He is starting to shut down and I’m really concerned for our relationship. What is a next step from here?



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