I have shared openly with my mate the details of my affair and as I’ve told her I have nothing more to hide. My challenge is that she wants more specifics such as timeline and I truly don’t remember. I struggled piecing together the story of how and what happened and where my mind space was at and horrific things that I truly didn’t want to share. How can I help her if I don’t know myself. I feel if I don’t answer the question then it will be over between us as she just can’t get passed it. What should I do?