Q&A How Do I Forgive the Unforgivable?

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My wife and I are 15 months into our recovery after a 3 year affair I had with a co-worker who we both worked alongside within our business, that we both built together from scratch. EMS Online was fantastic and I can happily say we are in a much better place than before the course. We both love each other and want to be together, for us and our 3 kids. How can I help her feel stable again within our marriage? I want her to take comfort in the fact that I have changed. As a commitment to both of us I gave up drinking soon after D-Day and with the help of EMS and our subsequent Married For Life course I have a better understanding of my own triggers and how I fell back into pre-marital patterns when life became tough on many levels. My wife however is a very true and pure person and cannot at times fathom how I could have stooped so low right under her nose. In her words “how do I forgive the unforgivable?”



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