Q&A How Do I Move On?

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My husband and I separated a little over 1 1/2 years ago due to his affair. He filed for divorce as he said he had no desire to reconcile our marriage. The divorce was finalized the beginning of this year. Since the beginning of our separation he has continually asked me to move home and then changed his mind a few days later, and in one instance only about 10 hours later. Since the divorce was finalized he has become more persistent in telling me to move home but he refuses to seek help for our relationship. I have made it very clear that I will not even consider moving back unless we get professional help. I have even begged him to stop bringing it up but he won't. It's exhausting and every time he brings it up it feels like the wound is being ripped open even more as I still love him and want so badly for our marriage to be restored. We have two young children so I can't just cut off contact with him. How do I move on from this when I feel like I am constantly on an emotional roller coaster with him?



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