Q&A What Is the Best Way to Approach Divorce in This Situation?

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You both answered a question not too long ago for me about my wife wanting a divorce after her refusal to get help. It is now a few months down the road and she is fully committed to her AP and is posting all kinds of pictures on her social media about them being together. WE ARE STILL MARRIED! I have realized that I will not be a part of this insanity. I’ve come to realization that I really have no choice, but to get a divorce. I want to be able to give her all of her belongings and simply move on. I do not want to split anything 50/50 nor do I want to dish out $10,000 for a divorce I don't even want. We do not have kids and I do not believe she would try to take anything away from me. What is the best way to approach divorce here? How can I save myself the hurt and heartache from all the money that is about to come my way? Lastly, how do I deal with the fact that I am about to pay for her ability to be with another man while she is still married to me?



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