I need help dealing with the divorce. EMS didn't work and we're now fully divorced, separated and living apart with visitation for the kids. But I'm still suffering from the effects of her abuse after she discovered my affair. We've been apart for 6 months, I was abused for 14 months following discovery. It seems AR or EMS coverage doesn't do anything for my situation. How to start a new life apart without all the feelings of hatred towards her?