My husband has jumped through many hoops this past year to try to convince me he wants to keep our marriage. Counseling, boot camp, EMS weekend, accountability partners, etc. The problem is, he remains in contact with the affair partner. I feel I have been on this roller coaster long enough & I sense God telling me to leave the marriage. Would you agree that to promote my own healing and provide a safe environment for healing to take place I am left with no other choice then file for divorce?